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not sure but what do u guys think? he's bi so he talks to both all the time and says girls act weird when he approaches but the guys are never like that.

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My friend and I always go out. Random people, whether they be asking for directions, or opinions on a movie (whilst we're in the cinema) always, ALWAYS come directly to me and ask, it happens very often and she often wonders if she's invisible :laugh:

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Duh! you think so. They are always looking for sex that's why.

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Duh! you think so. They are always looking for sex that's why.

 

lol thats stupid. I dont do that stuff. I always let guys say hi to me I dont care. but alot of other girls try to act like they dont see but they do lol.

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men are most certainly more approachable!!

 

I love to talk to people and meet new people. I don't have a car and spend a lot of time traveling by bus and train. I always talk to everyone... and yes, men almost always talk to me where as women brush me off (Im a girl) They always have their "creep-dar" on.

 

sadly since Im not all that attractive most men put me in the friendzone but that is ok cos I love having friends.

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men are most certainly more approachable!!

 

I love to talk to people and meet new people. I don't have a car and spend a lot of time traveling by bus and train. I always talk to everyone... and yes, men almost always talk to me where as women brush me off (Im a girl) They always have their "creep-dar" on.

 

sadly since Im not all that attractive most men put me in the friendzone but that is ok cos I love having friends.

 

The OP proves points I always griped about. Women live to play games! I see them all the time with their cell phones pressed to their ears, acting like they're talking to someone or just holding the phone in front of them, texting away, or pretending to whenever any guy is within vicinity.

 

This is pathetic and a pain in the ass to deal with it regularly. I can count how many women are approachable. But the thing is, if you totally ignore them, then they'll cut the crap out and try to get the man's attention.

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The OP proves points I always griped about. Women live to play games! I see them all the time with their cell phones pressed to their ears, acting like they're talking to someone or just holding the phone in front of them, texting away, or pretending to whenever any guy is within vicinity.

 

This is pathetic and a pain in the ass to deal with it regularly. I can count how many women are approachable. But the thing is, if you totally ignore them, then they'll cut the crap out and try to get the man's attention.

 

 

 

uh. no. we don't agree at all. Please don't put words in my mouth. And Im a "women" I live to play games? ok whatever.

 

I don't think they're playing games, I think they honestly don't want to be bothered. Which is fine, that is their right (and their loss ;) Also, for all I know they might actually be on their phones texting someone about something important. You have no idea really using their phone or pretending.

 

and frankly if they don't want to talk to you, why would you w ant to talk to them? There are days when i don't feel like talking or I don't feel good etc. Then, I'll put my ear buds in too.

 

no body owes you anything.

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I don't talk to guys unless there is a very good reason to talk. It's about totally different subjects compared to talking to females. I try to keep it very cool because of gay culture sxit here.

 

At the bar, guys are harder to talk in my opinion. There are some guys who don't care about women and just like to fool around with guys. But most of them are not there for that reason. They would say 'why is this guy talking to me?'

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I think:

Guys are more approachable to gals and guys likely feeling there's less to fear from a gal as they're generally smaller and weaker and less to fear from a guy as they're on similar grounds.

 

Gals are likely more approachable to gals and less approachable to guys feeling he's stronger and bigger a possible threat and if he choses to harm her she'll be held accountable for his actions or have some role in it.

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Cultural perspective is important. I'd say that in western countries men are definitely more approachable. Not because western men are super friendly but because western women have a cold and unfriendly demeanor when they are out and about (and then they complain that men don't approach them..) Being approachable is an art and sadly, western women are often clueless in that regard. It's amazing how much friendlier and more pleasant women are in certain other parts of the world.

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The OP proves points I always griped about. Women live to play games! I see them all the time with their cell phones pressed to their ears, acting like they're talking to someone or just holding the phone in front of them, texting away, or pretending to whenever any guy is within vicinity.

 

This is pathetic and a pain in the ass to deal with it regularly. I can count how many women are approachable. But the thing is, if you totally ignore them, then they'll cut the crap out and try to get the man's attention.

Gals not being approachable doesn't prove your point that gals live to play games. Nor does it seem logical to equate gals avoiding being approached to gals living to play games. Seems more logical that it means some gals don't want to be approached and make attempts to avoid such.

 

Perhaps it's pathetic and a pain in the ass when guys feel entitled or owe a gal's attention because she's within vicinity otherwise she's playing games. Bit curious as to what game gals are playing if they are less approachable and make attempts to avoid being approached. :lmao:

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uh. no. we don't agree at all. Please don't put words in my mouth. And Im a "women" I live to play games? ok whatever.

 

I don't think they're playing games, I think they honestly don't want to be bothered. Which is fine, that is their right (and their loss ;) Also, for all I know they might actually be on their phones texting someone about something important. You have no idea really using their phone or pretending.

 

and frankly if they don't want to talk to you, why would you w ant to talk to them? There are days when i don't feel like talking or I don't feel good etc. Then, I'll put my ear buds in too.

 

no body owes you anything.

 

You can disagree all you want but I know the truth and so do smart men. I have more than enough experience with women to know it's a game. It's not about being interested. It's about trying to mess with our heads.

 

Like I said, I've pulled the ignoring card on them multiple times and these same women drop the bull**** and try to get my attention then, so don't try to talk as if you know, because either you don't, or you're being plain dishonest. I'll go with the latter. It fits ya'll. :p

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OP, your friend is right.

 

That's because while I may not give a crap about sports, I can always talk tech stuff to another guy.

 

To women, tech stuff = major turnoff and a bore.

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The OP proves points I always griped about. Women live to play games! I see them all the time with their cell phones pressed to their ears, acting like they're talking to someone or just holding the phone in front of them, texting away, or pretending to whenever any guy is within vicinity.

 

This is pathetic and a pain in the ass to deal with it regularly. I can count how many women are approachable. But the thing is, if you totally ignore them, then they'll cut the crap out and try to get the man's attention.

 

Um..this might be true not sure :confused:. But its true that girls dont approach at all or look like they wanna be to me. I'm a friendly guy & always wanna be approached no matter what 'cause I like to talk. But girls are different to guys in this way. They through up walls & walls so no one gets in :(.

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