Kofybean Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 Mmm... been sitting here reading a lot keyboard warrior princesses telling men the A-Z's on what men need to do, what they are doing wrong, and why. So what exactly do YOU women do on dates, other then show up? I'm just trying to see what contributions to the dating enviornment you bring. The main ones from reading here seem to be a)getting ready. Don't really get how that is female specific, as if men don't get ready (gas, reservations, planning, car maintance, personal maintance, etc) but sure... if you want to list it I won't complain. Another is b)putting up with unwanted advances. That has caused me much joy in laughter so far. Women's contributions and responsibilities to dating is putting up with men not doing what they want them to do. haha. *sniff* Women have it soo hard in the datig world because ugh... they get so much attention. MMM.... my favorite is c)women do all the work in a marriage. So somehow, I haven't been able to bridge that leap yet, somehow every guy must cater to every women in dating because one of them, at some point in time in the future, will possibly be his wife. Personally, I don't do the dating thing. I also don't really get how guys go on all these dates first, with hopes of getting laid after following a bunch of rules. Seems backwards to me, but whatever. Date the women you have already had sex with seems more logical, otherwise your vision is clouded. So let's have it you wonderful women, what is the list of female specific things you bring to the dating game? 2
maysj18 Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 Mmm... been sitting here reading a lot keyboard warrior princesses telling men the A-Z's on what men need to do, what they are doing wrong, and why. So what exactly do YOU women do on dates, other then show up? I'm just trying to see what contributions to the dating enviornment you bring. The main ones from reading here seem to be a)getting ready. Don't really get how that is female specific, as if men don't get ready (gas, reservations, planning, car maintance, personal maintance, etc) but sure... if you want to list it I won't complain. Another is b)putting up with unwanted advances. That has caused me much joy in laughter so far. Women's contributions and responsibilities to dating is putting up with men not doing what they want them to do. haha. *sniff* Women have it soo hard in the datig world because ugh... they get so much attention. MMM.... my favorite is c)women do all the work in a marriage. So somehow, I haven't been able to bridge that leap yet, somehow every guy must cater to every women in dating because one of them, at some point in time in the future, will possibly be his wife. Personally, I don't do the dating thing. I also don't really get how guys go on all these dates first, with hopes of getting laid after following a bunch of rules. Seems backwards to me, but whatever. Date the women you have already had sex with seems more logical, otherwise your vision is clouded. So let's have it you wonderful women, what is the list of female specific things you bring to the dating game? I just offer good conversation, banter, adventure, whatever. I dont expect anything, so there's no pressure with me. I will gladly drive and/or pay, I'm all about 50/50. I dont really know what youre looking for though.
SmileFace Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 -Eat free food -tease men with no intention of putting out - laugh at guys jokes to mask the fact that we are actually laughing at them 4
january2011 Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 So what exactly do YOU women do on dates, other then show up? I'm just trying to see what contributions to the dating enviornment you bring. Yup, that's pretty much it. Otherwise, it would just be a bunch of dateless guys in a room complaining about how there are no women out there. Wait... 3
samsungxoxo Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 Well currently I've been doing out with a male colleague. I guess I'm a good listener, dressed up good and come with a smile. Other than that, yes I admit to getting free meals.
udolipixie Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 So let's have it you wonderful women, what is the list of female specific things you bring to the dating game? In my experiences: get ready but not too ready it's a balance of getting his attention but not being an attention seeker who needs male attention where other guys are looking as well show you're sexually interested but not too sexually interested if a gal is interested in a relationship it'll likely be a disadvantage to ac upon her sexual urges as she may be seen as not gf material read if you should split your way or let him pay some guys think her paying her half is an indication of lack of interest while some guys are okay with equality...when it comes to finances. being pleasant and placating seems being a gal is about coddling guys, empathsizing with guys, and ensuring his ego is validated be feminine generally meaning subervient and weak where he's in charge and the leader let him be masculine generally meaning condone, minimize, and excuse his bad or poor behavior Quite unsure how putting up with unwanted advances is laughable as I don't find humor in sexual harassment, sexual assault, or rape. Getting unwanted persistent advances to be is negative attention which is troublesome. It's quite unpleasant being in the presence with someone bigger and stronger than you who doesn't understand 'no, don't, stop'. Really unsure how you equated 'women do all the work in a marriage' to guys must cater to every gal in dating. 1
paperboy48 Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 MMM.... my favorite is c)women do all the work in a marriage. That sure didn't happen happen in my marriage.
seachangeoflove Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 well, as soon as the guy pays the bill I usually get up and give a lap dance to a better looking guy just to make him jealous. teehee!! 4
SarahRose Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 I come prepared. In my large purse, I have several magic tricks, bowling pins for juggling, and clown/mime makeup for when I have to busk outside of the restaurant because he was too cheap to buy me a cup of water. If he does buy me that cup of water, then I am fully prepared to put on either a 10 minute magic show or 15 minute circus act. Top that suckas 9
PhillyDude Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 Women contribute that "magical hole" they born with to dating Isn't that enough??
Emilia Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 Personally, I don't do the dating thing. Probably very wise 2
Thierro Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 So let's have it you wonderful women, what is the list of female specific things you bring to the dating game? In my experiences: get ready but not too ready it's a balance of getting his attention but not being an attention seeker who needs male attention where other guys are looking as well show you're sexually interested but not too sexually interested if a gal is interested in a relationship it'll likely be a disadvantage to ac upon her sexual urges as she may be seen as not gf material read if you should split your way or let him pay some guys think her paying her half is an indication of lack of interest while some guys are okay with equality...when it comes to finances. being pleasant and placating seems being a gal is about coddling guys, empathizing with guys, and ensuring his ego is validated be feminine generally meaning subervient and weak where he's in charge and the leader let him be masculine generally meaning condone, minimize, and excuse his bad or poor behavior As a man, I agree with this. Just reading it is attractive to me.
todreaminblue Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 Mmm... been sitting here reading a lot keyboard warrior princesses telling men the A-Z's on what men need to do, what they are doing wrong, and why. So what exactly do YOU women do on dates, other then show up? I'm just trying to see what contributions to the dating enviornment you bring. The main ones from reading here seem to be a)getting ready. Don't really get how that is female specific, as if men don't get ready (gas, reservations, planning, car maintance, personal maintance, etc) but sure... if you want to list it I won't complain. Another is b)putting up with unwanted advances. That has caused me much joy in laughter so far. Women's contributions and responsibilities to dating is putting up with men not doing what they want them to do. haha. *sniff* Women have it soo hard in the datig world because ugh... they get so much attention. MMM.... my favorite is c)women do all the work in a marriage. So somehow, I haven't been able to bridge that leap yet, somehow every guy must cater to every women in dating because one of them, at some point in time in the future, will possibly be his wife. Personally, I don't do the dating thing. I also don't really get how guys go on all these dates first, with hopes of getting laid after following a bunch of rules. Seems backwards to me, but whatever. Date the women you have already had sex with seems more logical, otherwise your vision is clouded. So let's have it you wonderful women, what is the list of female specific things you bring to the dating game? 1.Go dutch I don't expect a man to pay for me nor am i comfortable with that 2.turn up open minded no expectations other than meeting someone new 3 be honest 4. be interested in what he has to say 5.hope for the same back 6.try to have a good time so is that warrior princess or i would consider pretty average on what a woman does or wants 1
todreaminblue Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 Gee, a brand new poster - one post to his name and he's already showing his true, bitter colors. OP, the Bitter Brigade (those male posters who are so damned angry that women don't want them that they spend their days & evenings spewing their bitterness on LS) can be found THAT way in their troll tree... =========> Now bear in mind OP, you'll be taught by the Bitter Brigade masters how to be delusional enough to think that your bald, overweight, out of shape 40 year old ass is worthy of attracting - and dating - 23 year old hot women. What....you didn't know that ALL 23 year old women are dying to date cheap 40 year old bitter guys who act as though buying a cup of coffee for a woman is akin to clubbing baby seals in the Arctic? Well it's true - the hot 20-something women are just DYING to date stingy, bitter guys like these. :laugh: And your new master wlll even convince you how these 22 or 24 year old hotties will be only too happy to PAY for the priviledge of dating your bald, overweight, out of shape ass by picking up the dinner tab. Yes, there's nothing finer than being a 22 year old beauty out with a middle-aged, unattractive man - and PAYING for the priviledge to do so. Why, I'll bet that happens ALL THE TIME and it's now the RULE, not the exception. Bahaha!! :laugh: OP, once you've been fully trained in the ways of the truly bitter, you too can become one of the lonely embittered men of LS who spend 95% of their dateless, unhappy lives posting here about the evils of women. Yeah, you'll be a chick magnet like them in no time at all. :laugh: I am surprised at the bitterness that I have seen across the board......I understand venting and directing attacks at the one who has slighted you.....i dont understand tarring and fethering though......i thought this site was about healing not blaming......and seeing logically how all men are born of women you would think a certain amount of respect could be had.....for the mothers, the daughters, the cute little nieces, the aunts.....hmmm.......these are all the warrior princesses
DjinnAgain Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 I'm starting to think sussing out certain guys with obvious bitterness before wasting a moment deserves all sorts of rewards. Again, men don't HAVE to do anything; and I don't HAVE to go out with anyone; and we'll see what works out best for everyone. I seriously never run into what I see here in the guys I date or my friends (granted, they all are married now)
FitChick Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 Not quite sure why the OP started this thread since he said he never dates. 1
somedude81 Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 They sit back and wait to be impressed. A date is basically a job interview. I hope you brought references and a resume. 1
RedRobin Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 (edited) They sit back and wait to be impressed. A date is basically a job interview. I hope you brought references and a resume. That's right! If you don't want to be asked any questions designed to assess compatibility and just want to 'go with the flow' ...then relax and enjoy your time in the friendzone. I find it comical that people spend more time researching a car they want to buy than getting to know someone they plan to put body parts into/allow into. What do I do on dates? Mostly observe. Edited June 28, 2012 by RedRobin 1
oaks Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 Personally, I don't do the dating thing. Why not? It's a hoot. You'd love it.
zengirl Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 Attempt to have fun and get to know each other. Sometimes, if the date was bad, that was impossible, but it should basically be what both people are doing. People outline all the effort and investment put into dating like it's a chore. If you feel that way. . . don't date. Seriously. Male or female, and I see it from both on here. Dating should be generally enjoyable. Some dates go awry, of course. No predicting that. But don't go out with that person again then!
oaks Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 They sit back and wait to be impressed. A date is basically a job interview. The trick is to make it not seem like one. Who enjoys a job interview?
zengirl Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 The trick is to make it not seem like one. Who enjoys a job interview? I kinda like job interviews, actually. . . When you go in with an attitude of seeing if it's for you, then you can have a lot of fun! It's when you're trying to 'get' something from it that it seems nerve-wracking.
Shaun-Dro Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 Mmm... been sitting here reading a lot keyboard warrior princesses telling men the A-Z's on what men need to do, what they are doing wrong, and why. So what exactly do YOU women do on dates, other then show up? I'm just trying to see what contributions to the dating enviornment you bring. The main ones from reading here seem to be a)getting ready. Don't really get how that is female specific, as if men don't get ready (gas, reservations, planning, car maintance, personal maintance, etc) but sure... if you want to list it I won't complain. Another is b)putting up with unwanted advances. That has caused me much joy in laughter so far. Women's contributions and responsibilities to dating is putting up with men not doing what they want them to do. haha. *sniff* Women have it soo hard in the datig world because ugh... they get so much attention. MMM.... my favorite is c)women do all the work in a marriage. So somehow, I haven't been able to bridge that leap yet, somehow every guy must cater to every women in dating because one of them, at some point in time in the future, will possibly be his wife. Personally, I don't do the dating thing. I also don't really get how guys go on all these dates first, with hopes of getting laid after following a bunch of rules. Seems backwards to me, but whatever. Date the women you have already had sex with seems more logical, otherwise your vision is clouded. So let's have it you wonderful women, what is the list of female specific things you bring to the dating game? We both know that women, generally, bring nothing to the table other than their good looks. They expect men to put in everything else. I think this wouldn't be so bad if only they let their guards down more so the men can have a fighting chance of really courting them. That's right. Us men deserve to be rewarded generously for our efforts.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 I come prepared. In my large purse, I have several magic tricks, bowling pins for juggling, and clown/mime makeup for when I have to busk outside of the restaurant because he was too cheap to buy me a cup of water. If he does buy me that cup of water, then I am fully prepared to put on either a 10 minute magic show or 15 minute circus act. Top that suckas Freaking hysterical SarahRose. 1
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