Battery123 Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 We met through mutual friends, exchanged numbers and went on a date. Dinner was good, I asked him to join me and my friends afterwards to watch a game at a bar later. My friend told me she thinks my date likes me a bit, coz whole night he was watching over me when a creepy guy tried to talk to me. He asked if he could hold my hands at the end of the date. Because he looks so tipsy, I jokingly said,"awwww you look so tipsy" and didn't let him hold my hands. He texted me if I get home safe that night and said we should get dinner sometimes soon. I replied sure. Then...no contact for days! I initiated a text saying how was his weekend and stuff...he still replied but I could sense he didn't put that much energy into our conv like before.... So I'm confused...it seems he likes me a bit on our date, and then he totally backed off a bit....Did he lose interest, or is unsure what I feel and waiting for me to ask him out? P.S. Up to this point I still can't tell if he just wanna sleep with me. He didn't make any physical move to me that night, other than asking if he can hold my hands.
Samilia Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 Maybe he was trying to get your pants off that night? Or being drunk made you look his type and then he got sober? (not to say that you aren't pretty, just not his type). I wouldn't spend tons of energy on it, you initiated contact, ball in his camp.
Author Battery123 Posted June 28, 2012 Author Posted June 28, 2012 I wasn't drunk. And he knew I'm the kind of girl who doesn't drink too much. He didn't ask me to go to his place after the date so....argh! I kinda like him and he's so hard to figure out!
Philosoraptor Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 You're over complicating things. If you're interested then ask him out. If not, then let it be. Life is all about taking risks and you need to decide whether or not this person is worth putting yourself out there and taking a risk for. 1
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