Zezhit Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 Im currently progressing with this girl.Shes still my friend and we are in love with each other...and are currently progressing towards being together.I was wondering about a few things... First question : Before the relationship we get really interested in each other...we think we're meant to be and all that but when we are together,is it hard to be faithful ? Im asking this cuz i see alot of guys/girls cheat on their partners.I dont want to be one of them cuz i see alot in this girl...and i only see her as my future love.I cant see anyone replacing her. Second question : What is love? Is it a feeling ? Third Question : I keep doubting my love for her now...i dont know why but as i mentioned above,im pretty sure i love her...i would do anything for her as long as she is happy and shes just so beautiful in everyway.I dont know why i get these doubts though...its weird and confusing.So how do i know if i truly love her ? And is it normal to get these doubts ? Fourth question : Will i ever fall into the trap of taking her for granted when i get with her ? Fifth question : We are still teens now,and this is my first going-to-be-relationship but i know that i am committed to her and that i love her.So can teen love last long ? I know i want her to be my wife Please help answer these questions ! i know its kinda long...but it will really help me
Author Zezhit Posted June 27, 2012 Author Posted June 27, 2012 Oh yes question 6... We are in a long distance relationship.Will this affect our feelings and our spark for each other ? Im really afraid that it will
Philosoraptor Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 1) No, being faithful is easy. You just need to be able to trust one another. 2) Ah love. I've determined for me that you know the love is there the moment you can't imagine your life without this person it in. Not that you can't live without them, but your future thoughts are centered with this person. Love is a feeling and you'll know it when it clicks. 3) If you doubt it you don't. Simple as that. You are infatuated and that's great. Be patient and let life happen. If it clicks it clicks. 4) That's your choice. You can either be mindful of everything and make an effort to show appreciation or you could just become expectant. The moment you start to expect things is when the appreciation starts to slip away. 5) Don't think so much. Just enjoy what is going on and don't worry about what the future holds. Let things happen naturally and you'll give any relationship the best chance at lasting. 6) Yes, yes it will. Long distance can make things very difficult and you'll go through much more than with someone you get to see and touch on a frequent basis.
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