bullethead Posted June 25, 2012 Posted June 25, 2012 I am really confused here about my ex's thinking. We dated for 3 months, 8 months ago she cheated on me once by making out with some guy. I dumped her immediately, deleted her from facebook, and completely went no contact. A few weeks ago my friend told me that she has became a complete sl*t during the 8 months of no contact. All of my feelings for her disappeared. A few days ago, my friends tried to get us to "talk" by inviting both of us to dinner without me knowing that she would come, she ignored me completely and I ignored her. But the whole time she was talking about how many guys hit on her etc... And whenever I run into her at a dining hall, office, or class room she quickly looks away or runs away. It is just awkward, why is she doing this? It just gets awkward when I am in a social situation. What should I do?
Ruby65 Posted June 25, 2012 Posted June 25, 2012 I am really confused here about my ex's thinking. We dated for 3 months, 8 months ago she cheated on me once by making out with some guy. I dumped her immediately, deleted her from facebook, and completely went no contact. A few weeks ago my friend told me that she has became a complete sl*t during the 8 months of no contact. All of my feelings for her disappeared. A few days ago, my friends tried to get us to "talk" by inviting both of us to dinner without me knowing that she would come, she ignored me completely and I ignored her. But the whole time she was talking about how many guys hit on her etc... And whenever I run into her at a dining hall, office, or class room she quickly looks away or runs away. It is just awkward, why is she doing this? It just gets awkward when I am in a social situation. What should I do? It sounds like she doesn't want to be in a relationship right now, she wants to be free to experience being single and dating other men. This doesn't make her a "slut." It just makes her young and not ready to settle down yet.
Philosoraptor Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 Come on now she was doing such things to try and get a bit of jealousy out of you. If your feelings are gone it doesn't matter and it just makes her look pathetic. You don't seem to want to chase her so it doesn't matter what her actions are.
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