zanesfan Posted June 25, 2012 Posted June 25, 2012 Ok so its been only 2 weeks since I decided to stop talking to the guy I declared a hunter. Let me make it very clear... I still dont want him. Do I think about him.. yes... some days more than others. I saw him after a week of NC at a park.. his daughter is in town and he took her. We spoke and that was it. The next day he sent me a text saying it was nice seeing me and my haircut was nice. I told him likewise and thank you. That was a week ago and NC since then. In the meantime Ive been making myself busy with work, working out, and seeing my friends when time permits. Here is the doozie...my dating life sucks! Its rare if I receive a text message or a call these days. I feel like I need to get emerged into dating to stop thinking about how things use to be with this guy. Besides in the gym I dont really see guys. I deleted my pof account because the guys were full of crap. Although I dont want to rush into a relationship-- finding someone to talk too and bond with would be nice. Btw, Im too old fashioned to pursue a guy. Any suggestions?
joystickd Posted June 25, 2012 Posted June 25, 2012 Be the aggressor for once in your life. Its not like you don't be proactive in other aspects of your life. Here is the thing that gets me women want equality but when it comes to being the aggressor in dating its " Oh! I can't do that". When it comes to achieving goals you have to put yourself out there and this is no different.
Author zanesfan Posted June 25, 2012 Author Posted June 25, 2012 (edited) Be the aggressor for once in your life. Its not like you don't be proactive in other aspects of your life. Here is the thing that gets me women want equality but when it comes to being the aggressor in dating its " Oh! I can't do that". When it comes to achieving goals you have to put yourself out there and this is no different. Great advice. But Im a bit shy and fear rejection. I want to start dating interracially as well but thats a whole different subject. I guess I can talk to the guys at the Y.. this one guy is indeed interested. He often makes a ton of eye contact with me but being that he is white Im not sure if he thinks Im not interested. And even though I know he wants to say something-- he doesnt. So its not just me being shy. Also Im not sure if he is my type yet or not. Joystickd... are you close to the Charlotte area? I live in NC as well. Edited June 25, 2012 by zanesfan
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