mesmerized Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 (edited) ] I was never asked out in my early 20s and had literally NO options. I have more options now than I ever have; doesn't mean they are good options - just that they beat nothing which I got when I was supposedly at my best. I also have zero regrets over all the men I rejected. If I saw them today, I would reject them all over again Your problem is that you take men on this forum too seriously. They have made this totally unreal picture of how the "real" world looks like. Every woman has 10s of options yet somehow the number of men and women in the world is the same. Edited June 24, 2012 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Edited quote
jobaba Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 Your problem is that you take men on this forum too seriously. They have made this totally unreal picture of how the "real" world looks like. Every woman has 10s of options yet somehow the number of men and women in the world is the same. To be fair, a lot of that picture is painted by female posters here who have numerous stories of rejecting men and HORDES of young men to even middle aged men saying they have no options and have never had a relationship, some regulars, some one offers. I can't even remember the last time a female posted who said she'd never had a boyfriend... Anyway, it doesn't matter, but that is the why. EDIT: I do remember one female poster in high school saying she had trouble. But she was very pretty and tall.
mesmerized Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 To be fair, a lot of that picture is painted by female posters here who have numerous stories of rejecting men and HORDES of young men to even middle aged men saying they have no options and have never had a relationship, some regulars, some one offers. I can't even remember the last time a female posted who said she'd never had a boyfriend... Anyway, it doesn't matter, but that is the why. EDIT: I do remember one female poster in high school saying she had trouble. But she was very pretty and tall. Not really, most single people on this form have trouble with the opposite sex or they wouldn't be here. You choose to see what you want to see.
Algermas Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 I'm wondering where these disgruntled men live if their local women turn into hags and fall apart when they turn 30. Appalachia? North Dakota? Mississippi? Maybe these guys are equally toothless and fat. You need to move! There are lots of desirable, gorgeous women over 30 in all major US cities. A lot of them date rich, successful men their own age or (gasp!) younger. Shocking I know! Does anyone think Algermas is GoldPile come back from the dead? Or maybe this guy? Desirable for poor men, yes. You've not heard me say they turn into rotting hags, that takes another decade. What you've heard me say is that all women ( excluding surgery and massive weight loss ) looked better when they were younger. As hot as she may look, she looked better when her tits were perkier. I can enjoy an 18 year old for years, a woman might still look good at 30 but the train is coming and when it does the results are never pretty. 1
RedRobin Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 That doesn't mean much from a woman who can no longer attract such a man. I see it all the time from men who work dead end jobs, oh those really hot girls? No no, I love my girlfriend - more woman to love. Because they can't get smoking hot girls. You don't know me very well, do you? Nor have you seen the men I attract. But you wouldn't believe me anyway. *shrug*
RedRobin Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 You clearly didn't read what I said. Not "over everything else," but alongside everything else. I care at least as much about a woman's intelligence and character as I do about her looks. It's just that I can get all simultaneously, so there's no sense in compromising. Understand? Your posts are dripping with anger from all the nookie you didn't get when you were younger... Smart women can pick up on that in two seconds... they can also pick up on the fact that you are targetting them based on age and looks first... and those other qualities second. You think you are clever, but you aren't. "Understand?" ha ha
Algermas Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 Your posts are dripping with anger from all the nookie you didn't get when you were younger... Smart women can pick up on that in two seconds... they can also pick up on the fact that you are targetting them based on age and looks first... and those other qualities second. You think you are clever, but you aren't. "Understand?" ha ha Smart women are for men who need her income to pay the bills, which woman is smarter? The one who thinks men want her for more than her looks and age or the woman who knows why she exists?
RedRobin Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 Smart women are for men who need her income to pay the bills, which woman is smarter? The one who thinks men want her for more than her looks and age or the woman who knows why she exists? Awww! Sounds like it really sucks to be you.... Ok, well, have fun with that... We need people like you here so that the ladies know what to avoid. Thanks for helpin' out, buddy! 1
Negative Nancy Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 And what you fail to take into account that in today's world, a lot of men in their teens and 20s don't want to settle down either. They play around, they look for how many girls they can sleep with, they don't want to man up and take any kind of responsibility for themselves, let alone another human being. Which means that today, women need to go to school and create their own path that allows them to be finacially independent just like men always had to do. Which means other things get pushed off later in life since that time and space is now needed for women to do certain things. This takes time, growing up and maturity. And do you really think every single girl in their teens and 20s never gets rejected? Like, seriously? Is that what you really believe? I've been rejected plenty. Does that mean that I don't "need" to date men my own age now because men my OWN age somehow have less value? You are bitter because you feel that women failed to acknowledge your worth but now you are gleefully happy to degrade women YOUR OWN AGE? Petty. Ridiculous. Bitter. Small-minded. Mean. UNTRUE. When you are able to see women as human beings like yourself who have a wide range of life experiences, good and bad, just like you, then you will be able to relate to women much better. However, you don't see women as real human beings and you clearly don't consider them of worth when they are even your own age or you wouldn't have made the statement you did in the first place. This will always create a problem for you and how you think, relate and see women. quoted for telling it like it is.
Sugarkane Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 If you guys say that you would/ all the men are taken by 20 somethings I don't find that to be completely true. Then how come recently I was rejected by someone in his mid 30s- older than me as he thought the age difference was too big? I don't think you can win. I'm mid 20s but then I'm too young? Why? According to you guys we would've continued dating. I've also been asked out my married guys before. Something I don't want at all.
Algermas Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 Awww! Sounds like it really sucks to be you.... Ok, well, have fun with that... We need people like you here so that the ladies know what to avoid. Thanks for helpin' out, buddy! That's the wonderful thing, all women think their vagina is magical and will somehow change men like myself. By the time they find out it isn't so I've already gotten what I wanted.
Negative Nancy Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 I know a ton of wealthy older guys married to women near their age range. Trust me, they are probably cheating on them with the secretary.
RedRobin Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 That's the wonderful thing, all women think their vagina is magical and will somehow change men like myself. By the time they find out it isn't so I've already gotten what I wanted. You are soo right! Alot of silly people DO think they can change others! That's what LS is for. To help them realize how retarded that assumption is. As for you.. I"m assuming they got something out of the arrangement too... probably just as likely they dumped you when they got bored, then you are back to square one. Aww, shucks!
boytoy Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 Your posts are dripping with anger from all the nookie you didn't get when you were younger... Smart women can pick up on that in two seconds... they can also pick up on the fact that you are targetting them based on age and looks first... and those other qualities second. You think you are clever, but you aren't. "Understand?" ha ha I don't understand, was that a joke? If my posts are dripping with anger, then yours are full of sour grapes at all the quality men who don't want you now that you are past your prime. We all have our issues, but things are looking up for me given the amazing women im lucky to be getting these days, and I get the impression the opposite is true for you. Enjoy "next"ing everyone bitterly before they inevitably "next" you.
Algermas Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 You are soo right! Alot of silly people DO think they can change others! That's what LS is for. To help them realize how retarded that assumption is. As for you.. I"m assuming they got something out of the arrangement too... probably just as likely they dumped you when they got bored, then you are back to square one. Aww, shucks! I exclusively deal with novice gold diggers, aka the ones dumb enough to give up the goods without payment. Back to square one? Once my singular reason for interacting with a female has been accomplished they no longer serve a purpose.
RedRobin Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 I exclusively deal with novice gold diggers, aka the ones dumb enough to give up the goods without payment. Back to square one? Once my singular reason for interacting with a female has been accomplished they no longer serve a purpose. ah, well. I guess everyone needs a hobby. *shrug*
joystickd Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 I exclusively deal with novice gold diggers, aka the ones dumb enough to give up the goods without payment. Back to square one? Once my singular reason for interacting with a female has been accomplished they no longer serve a purpose. Newsflash! They are not golddiggers. Like I said most women and men couldn't recognize a true to the game player or golddigger. 1
Algermas Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 Newsflash! They are not golddiggers. Like I said most women and men couldn't recognize a true to the game player or golddigger. Any girl in her late teens dating a man in his thirties is a golddigger.
FitChick Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 Be honest, is that really the truth? Or did the men who ask you out not count? If that is true, then what were you like when you were in your 20's? Physically, mentally, socially. Yes, it was true. I hung out with guys as friends. We were buddies. We were all rather immature (like the guys on LS), although some guys did date other women. Funnily enough, some of my female friends thought I must have been having sex with all of them. I was tall and very thin. I almost never wore dresses or skirts. I was asked to model once when I was in NYC but knew I'd have to undress in front of strangers so declined. I was a virgin until I was 28. My dating life didn't really start until after forty, thanks to online dating, the Lefkoe Method and a head to toe makeover physically and in attitude. So it's never too late! (I guess that blows your theory) 1
FitChick Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 I exclusively deal with novice gold diggers, aka the ones dumb enough to give up the goods without payment. Back to square one? Once my singular reason for interacting with a female has been accomplished they no longer serve a purpose. And someone as clever as you must know that younger women get pregnant, often deliberately, especially if they know they can get cash for eighteen years after. I'd suggest calling a urologist Monday morning and making an appointment for a vasectomy. Cheaper in the long run.
Algermas Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 And someone as clever as you must know that younger women get pregnant, often deliberately, especially if they know they can get cash for eighteen years after. I'd suggest calling a urologist Monday morning and making an appointment for a vasectomy. Cheaper in the long run. Someone as clever as I would've already had it done the day they turned 18. They'd also get tested regularly and use condoms just to be sure. Nobody is getting child support from me.
Titanwolf Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 I was a virgin until I was 28. My dating life didn't really start until after forty I want to be leaf!
somedude81 Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 Yes, it was true. I hung out with guys as friends. We were buddies. We were all rather immature (like the guys on LS), although some guys did date other women. Funnily enough, some of my female friends thought I must have been having sex with all of them. So none of the guys you hung out with, ever told you that they liked you, tried to make any moves etc? No matter how awkwardly it was done it still counts. I was tall and very thin. I almost never wore dresses or skirts. I was asked to model once when I was in NYC but knew I'd have to undress in front of strangers so declined. I was a virgin until I was 28. What changed to make you interested in guy in your late 20's? My dating life didn't really start until after forty, thanks to online dating, the Lefkoe Method and a head to toe makeover physically and in attitude. So it's never too late! You're 40+?! ROFL! I thought you were in your 20's.
FitChick Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 So none of the guys you hung out with, ever told you that they liked you, tried to make any moves etc? No matter how awkwardly it was done it still counts. What changed to make you interested in guy in your late 20's? You're 40+?! ROFL! I thought you were in your 20's. The boys were as awkward as I was. I had a crush on one guy but he wasn't interested. I lost my virginity to a man I didn't find attractive (he was my height, stocky body but very fit). He was an architect, very nice, very attentive, good to me and really liked me. He took me to meet his mother at a family dinner after only three weeks of dating. It didn't last because he knew I wasn't really into him. As for my age, sorry for any confusion I caused you. Next time I'll remember to wear my gray wig and granny panties when posting.
goldengirl11 Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 So none of the guys you hung out with, ever told you that they liked you, tried to make any moves etc? No matter how awkwardly it was done it still counts. What changed to make you interested in guy in your late 20's? You're 40+?! ROFL! I thought you were in your 20's. Yes I imagined FC to be in her 20's, at the most 30's too.
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