persevere Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 (edited) ...and to when to know she flakes? I've been chatting with an OLD woman for 2 weeks now. We're supposed to meet tonight, for a first date. She now tells me (mid afternoon) "she'll let me know about night. Stayed home today. Throat is killing me. Trying to sleep it off" I suppose I'll just lay low and let her chase me now. Edited June 22, 2012 by persevere
january2011 Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 It really depends on your comfort level. Trust your gut and instincts. You're going to have to let her in to a certain extent, otherwise any relationship is going to be stifled before it even starts. Regarding the flaking, I say ask her out twice. Beyond that, walk away, particularly if she makes an excuse that seems insincere and doesn't offer alternatives. If you don't hear from her about tonight, walk away. And if you don't like people who are lastminute with their plans, walk away.
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