Squishy_Belle Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 So after the shallow debate yesterday, out of no where right before midnight when i was going to bed a 10 messaged me! And he is 6ft haha. Anyway it felt like i was talking to someone i have known for years. We have so much in common and the same out look on life and had a real good laugh. Seen as i have never really actually had a half decent convosation with someone of a dating site does anyone have tipps? We seem to have a lot to talk about but what happens if we start running low on things to say? What do you generally talk about when you talk to someone online? What are some no goes? Im just being myself but i would hate to kill a convo over somethig stupid.
MooBear Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 It's been a while for me, but I would get the work/hobbies/music questions out of the way first and then just build on that. If you two go off on a tangent and it starts to go quiet, bring it back to the original topic. For example, you were talking about his job which led into a funny story about a coworker and then you told a funny story as well and then it goes a bit dead? "So how long have you been working there? Do you enjoy it?" and then go from there
Bob_Funk Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 I'm sure if he looked like Michael Cera you'd feel the same way about him. This is why as a male 6 I can't get a female 6 (or even a 4 for that matter). Because male 10's are all too willing to sleep with them.
FitChick Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 as a male 6 I can't get a female 6 (or even a 4 for that matter). Because male 10's are all too willing to sleep with them. Well, if he's a 10 dating a 6, he has lowered his standards by 4 points. That means you need to date a 2.
Ross MwcFan Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 Just be yourself. If the two of you end up always running out of things to say, then it probably means that you aren't that compatible and it was never ment to be.
Author Squishy_Belle Posted June 23, 2012 Author Posted June 23, 2012 Just be yourself. If the two of you end up always running out of things to say, then it probably means that you aren't that compatible and it was never ment to be. Thats what im thinking..it hasnt happened and we have been talking so much. I guess im just like..meeh?! because every other guy i have tried to have convos with just died and this seems so different.
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