Author ThaWholigan Posted June 22, 2012 Author Posted June 22, 2012 Okay, okay, off topic.... anyway, ThaW, you saw my profile, and know I get hardly any messages in a month. Yet this fake profile got all of these hits. What does that say to you? That guys are weird?? I don't know what it says to me. It kinda looks like this: jiojwi;ojfio;ghus;jg054[jt9jioa;j5iI don't have any answers....even I get messaged and I put that I was autistic on my OKC profile to see if I would get messaged (AND my virginity) . So I don't understand....
Author ThaWholigan Posted June 22, 2012 Author Posted June 22, 2012 Unfortunately, I've been channeling all of my pent up frustration watching trashy college sex movies on Netflix, which only makes it worse... It's been festering the last week or so that I haven't made any music I think getting men to raise their standards and be more in control of their sexuality is a problem that frustrated our ancestors so much they started lobbing off foreskins, and even that didn't work. true. Life is f*cking interesting 1
mesmerized Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 Why . I don't understand why a thread like that would get to you...... Not sure. Maybe because I feel like guys I've been with may have seen me as bad looking but went along with it anyway.
gaius Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 true. Life is f*cking interesting That it is man. I've been on OKCupid for about 6 months, and barely gotten any messages. So when I see threads like that, I am completely blown away. Maybe because it was written by a man, so he knows what men are looking for? (Sexting!) Anyway, on the rare occasion I DO get messages, they are from guys who are completely outside my age range... always younger though, which is weird. I'm 27, and yet the guys who message me are always 21-24. The last one who messaged me was 23 years old, and probably moving (as he was finishing up grad.) I can only imagine the guys are messaging me in hopes of getting an easy lay/some sexting fun, or because they're spamming absolutely everybody on the site. Okay, okay, off topic.... anyway, ThaW, you saw my profile, and know I get hardly any messages in a month. Yet this fake profile got all of these hits. What does that say to you? Clean out your PM box and you'll get a new message.
mesmerized Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 I think getting men to raise their standards and be more in control of their sexuality is a problem that frustrated our ancestors so much they started lobbing off foreskins, and even that didn't work. too funny! 1
Snakechammah Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 I laughed so hard reading that thread! The poor girl! She probably doesnt know her pictures are being used for ridiculing people! But it's still damn funny! But wow. I guess ultimately, everybody needs love... some get them easy on the eyes, some... will make do with whatever's available. Tsk! I'm going to continue reading that thread now.... 1
Author ThaWholigan Posted June 22, 2012 Author Posted June 22, 2012 Not sure. Maybe because I feel like guys I've been with may have seen me as bad looking but went along with it anyway. Well, that's unfortunate that you feel that way, but honestly I doubt those guys were actually retarded enough to think that. Threads like these only make me think about how crazy life is and how sane I am compared to everyone else (and I'm bat**** nuts, really ). On that note, I'm off to sleep. Pretty glad I don't take life too seriously at this point - I think I was meant to be this way .... 2
jobaba Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 I've been on OKCupid for about 6 months, and barely gotten any messages. So when I see threads like that, I am completely blown away. Maybe because it was written by a man, so he knows what men are looking for? (Sexting!) Anyway, on the rare occasion I DO get messages, they are from guys who are completely outside my age range... always younger though, which is weird. I'm 27, and yet the guys who message me are always 21-24. The last one who messaged me was 23 years old, and probably moving (as he was finishing up grad.) I can only imagine the guys are messaging me in hopes of getting an easy lay/some sexting fun, or because they're spamming absolutely everybody on the site. Okay, okay, off topic.... anyway, ThaW, you saw my profile, and know I get hardly any messages in a month. Yet this fake profile got all of these hits. What does that say to you? If I saw your profile and you really didn't get any interest ... then, that would make me believe that women don't really have it much easier, because you're relatively attractive. Of course, it would also depend on which part of the country you live. Then again, either way, doesn't change what I have to do. The new mentality I'm trying to adopt.
Feelsgoodman Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 omg I laughed so much but well, the guys aren't that great looking either sooo...Also, just because this conversation takes place in chats, doesn't mean these men will go along with it. POF is full of crazy talking... Oh come on...those guys may not be studs but most of them are a million times better looking than the two females in question. Most of those guys are pretty average looking, not hot and not ugly. They should be going for women who are in their league - average looking women. The fact that they are willing to settle for an overfed land whale is pretty sad and shows the extent of their desperation. Their behavior is above pussy begging - it's too pathetic for words.
Feelsgoodman Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 Honestly, I don't think the thread proved anything, except that guys will use the Internet for sexy chat. Now, if they were actually arranging meetings with the girls in real life, we might have something, but it seemed like most of them just wanted a call-and-answer sort of fantasy scenario, not an actual "I am speaking to this larger woman' sex connection. Keep reading, most of them agreed to meet.
jobaba Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 Off topic... I predict the creator of that fake POF Fat Girl thread will be running for president in 2044 and the muckrakers will dig up that thread. Did you not ridicule obese women and concoct a generally misogynistic thread for purposes of personal entertainment and riling up a crowd of testosterone overpumped males? It was traced back to your IP address at the time... Candidate: Hmmm. I don't recall. 1
kaylan Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 Just wanted to make a platform here, because what I saw was amusing and sad at the same time. It's been posted on other threads before, but I draw your attention to these threads from another forum: My Fake Fat Girl POF Acc - Bodybuilding.com Forums *My Fake Fat BLACK Girl POF Acc - Bodybuilding.com Forums Now, lets set aside our feelings about the ladies in question who's photos have been stolen for these pics. Obviously they may very well be nice people who don't deserve to have their appearance mocked in the way that it is - but we're not going to focus on that. It wasn't necessarily the looks of these girls, but the conversations, and the way the guys went along with it that made me chuckle......and then think really hard. This does nothing to stunt my optimism about dating - but then again, I have standards . Do you think that sexually speaking, it's a better idea for men to have more control and restraint over their sexuality, at the event of such desperation and unadulterated thirst taking over in such a fashion? This should be good ....... Lmao. I love the Misc section of BB.com. Ultimate trolling there haha. Anyways, I have selective standards sexually, and its sometimes to the detriment of my sex life. But meh, Id rather it be that way then sleeping with almost anything like a lot of guys do. I have too much pride.
ohmygoshistalk Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 the men i know have high standards. i think they should actually lower it. cause these men i know whine to me about not getting laid or not being in a relationship. these men in BB are something else, i have been to that forum before and it just seems to be some of them have passive aggressive anger issues or something, must be the 'roids.
Titanwolf Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 (edited) Good old misc. I used to be a regular on there, until I had to quit from too many LOL's. (It's hard to keep up with so many great threads). In all seriousness though, they were trying to prove a point, which was regardless of what a women looks like in this day and age, men will still flock to them. As Beyonce so eloquently put it "Who runs the world? girls". Just a little truth for you. Edit- @ohmygoshistalk- They're not passive aggressive, as you can see they're very active aggressive and they'll go out of their way to prove a point. Speaking from the other side, resentment accompanies their hobby because a lot of them begin training for the sole purpose of increasing their chances with women, they resent the fact that they have to train so hard almost everyday, just so an average woman (who usually does absolutely nothing, but is swarmed with male attention) will give them the time of day. The only thing this little "test" proved, is that they were right, a woman is given a lot more leeway by men, than vice-versa. Edited June 22, 2012 by Titanwolf
utterer of lies Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 I've been on OKCupid for about 6 months, and barely gotten any messages. So when I see threads like that, I am completely blown away. Maybe because it was written by a man, so he knows what men are looking for? Maybe you are doing something wrong?
RedRobin Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/331688-im-so-sick-tired-girls-claiming-all-guys-want-sex There was an interesting post in this thread from a couple of posters that made me think about this aswell. As in, sexually, should we start to show more control over our sexuality, a sign of higher standards possibly?? . Couldn't hurt. Anyway, it is a huge myth that most men want sex more than most women. Since the stigma for early sex is dropping, it really isn't any big deal that a man can 'get' sex. It only shows what poor taste he has, how little he cares about himself, and most likely... a lack of ability to bond with a woman. None of the above makes him a candidate for a serious relationship if or when he finds he wants one. 1
RedRobin Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 Lmao. I love the Misc section of BB.com. Ultimate trolling there haha. Anyways, I have selective standards sexually, and its sometimes to the detriment of my sex life. But meh, Id rather it be that way then sleeping with almost anything like a lot of guys do. I have too much pride. ok. Would that make you a 'prude' then? or that label only applies to women who have standards and won't sleep with you just because you claim to be looking for a relationship. Or just aren't attracted to you for whatever reason.
Eternal Sunshine Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 I am not surprised. Any woman will find it easy to get sex, but not a relationship. I could go to a corner store right now and I am 90% sure that the sales guy would have sex with me. It doesn't mean that it's easier for women because finding a long term relationship is very elusive. 2
LexiB Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 2nd thread, 6th page...lmfao @ hot bananas and Bengay :lmao: Looks aren't even the issue here. It's downright pitiful that all those men are talking to women who they believe "behave" "speak" and "think" the way op portrays. 2
Author ThaWholigan Posted June 22, 2012 Author Posted June 22, 2012 2nd thread, 6th page...lmfao @ hot bananas and Bengay :lmao: Looks aren't even the issue here. It's downright pitiful that all those men are talking to women who they believe "behave" "speak" and "think" the way op portrays. Thank you! my point exactly
Eternal Sunshine Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 My favorite part is "I microwaved a banana...." 1
Feelsgoodman Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 2nd thread, 6th page...lmfao @ hot bananas and Bengay :lmao: I lost it when she started talking about her kid blowing on her burnt $#%&^ to cool it down...He's a gud kid...LMAO
Eternal Sunshine Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 I actually laughed out a loud while reading both threads, multiple times. It rarely happens; that OP is good.
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