Drummrrr Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 We've been together for 8 months, she lives with her ex and claims that there's nothing there. I often don't think about this as she's never given me any cause to doubt her. As of late she's been drinking more and having "passionate" outbursts. Following these outbursts she packs all her things and heads back to her house. She accuses me of demanding that she leave, when in fact during our last disagreement she literally got up from the table and took her things. Yes, in the past there have been instances that I have asked her to go, but not this time. I didn't want her to drive this last time because she was so drunk; I tried to take her keys away in an effort to keep her off the road but was called a psycho for doing so. This has happened a number of times and she always calls or texts me within 3 days. On past occasions I have tried to be as firm as I can and make it clear that I will not tolerate this behaviour. Nothing changes. I truly love her and I want this to work but after this last time I don't think I can deal anymore. She broke the door to the bathroom this last time and admitted to me that other guys have thrown her out for wrecking their places. Other guys who were paying rent. I have a mortgage that I'm struggling to pay. Call it quits? Am I crazy in the first place? What should I do?
MooBear Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 You're not crazy, but she sounds like she is on the borderline! She lives with her ex. No matter how platonic they are, it's still an ex. It's not a good situation! That for me would be enough to leave. Surely there are other places she could live! She has "passionate" outbursts and smashed your door. So she's a violent drunk who has no respect for your property - or anyone else's by the sound of it. Honest opinion - cut her loose. She clearly has some things she needs to work through, and thats not your problem to take on. Find someone a bit more normal and enjoy being happy
Gulf-Delta Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 We've been together for 8 months, she lives with her ex This is where you ****ed up/
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