sam2012 Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 Hi As the title says...I thought she would have tried to contact me, not that I'm hoping NC will make her come back but still
ihateslowjams Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 Ive been in 11 days of NC and still nothing. Don't expect anything because its more likely to not happen.
Winning Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 It sucks, doesn't it, realizing they don't miss you or what you had. Two months no contact here.
Jose11 Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 two month, well up to yesterday nc. I broke it, see my thread if you intersted in a interesting story. What i learned is that they just don't care anymore. They have already moved on becuase they had a head start a while before the day of the breakup to begin mourning.
barese1 Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 Nearly 1 month NC and nothing. If they're the dumpers they are over us and will not be contacting us. We have to face facts guys no matter how much it sucks
BB7 Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 Day 1 of NC for me. I feel like a weight has been shifted though because I am no longer chasing or hoping for reconciliation. She doesn't think it's the last time we'll speak given the way she acted when I said 'well I guess this is goodbye', but for me it's the last time. I can't be in her life anymore and that's the way it's got to be. And yep, the dumper has a huge headstart on us which makes things so much worse. So while I've spent the last 2 months after BU trying to win her back, she's continued moving on. I'm at square one now, but I'm where I'm meant to be. Keep going with NC, we are in this together and it starts today!
BB7 Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 Hi As the title says...I thought she would have tried to contact me, not that I'm hoping NC will make her come back but still I'm not really expecting any contact from her for now but she'll soon realize that I'm not after her anymore and I have no doubt that she will try to reach me somehow in the next few months, it's her nature. I'll deal with that if it happens though, and I'm not waiting around anymore and that's the mindset you should have too.
mike588 Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 My ex. dumped me for her ex. after we dated for almost a year. I too soooo wanted her to contact me but I stuck with and stayed No Contact...it was one of the hardest things I've ever done!! It's been 10 months now since she dumped me and after a few months I gave up from ever hearing from her. Well 6 months after the 'dumping" she contacts me several times saying how sorry she was...how she regereted it and she was a big jerk..(her words) By that time I had moved on and was pretty much over her but it did set me back a few steps. Now I'm completely over her...don't want to hear from her and could care less. Move on with your life...believe me ..I know it's tough but it's the best thing you can do. It does get better..lots better! I'm happy now...I'm loving being single and dating when and where I want to. Stick with No Contact!! It works!! 2
Forever Learning Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 My ex. dumped me for her ex. after we dated for almost a year. I too soooo wanted her to contact me but I stuck with and stayed No Contact...it was one of the hardest things I've ever done!! It's been 10 months now since she dumped me and after a few months I gave up from ever hearing from her. Well 6 months after the 'dumping" she contacts me several times saying how sorry she was...how she regereted it and she was a big jerk..(her words) By that time I had moved on and was pretty much over her but it did set me back a few steps. Now I'm completely over her...don't want to hear from her and could care less. Move on with your life...believe me ..I know it's tough but it's the best thing you can do. It does get better..lots better! I'm happy now...I'm loving being single and dating when and where I want to. Stick with No Contact!! It works!! Great inspiring and positive post! Good stuff, and keep up the great work and great positive vibe!
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