matt1022 Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 So me and my girlfriend of 5 years broke up 6 weeks ago (check other posts for longer story) I was finally feeling like I'm going to be ok and then my grandfather passed away thursday and we had the funeral monday and the burial tuesday My girlfriend called me as soon as she heard he passed and asked if i wanted her to come and spend the day with me i told her no its ok and then she called my sister. She showed up monday at the wake and hugged me for a good 3 mins crying in my arms clutching me then asked if i would go with her to pay her respects. After we had a weird conversation in which she kept saying you'll find someone to make you happy and i told her i know but I'm not ready yet. We then went outside and and talked about different things and she would say things like "i want to be happy with you but its just not working right now" and "I been trying to get out so that I don't have to think about it but when Im alone it sucks" and she said then got it out of me that I still love her. She then left and i did not expect to hear from her. Then yesterday she texted me and asked how I was. I told her I was ok and then figured that the condo was over. She then sent me a long text explaining that I shouldn't change at all that she loved me for so long because of who I was and that I would find someone who loves me just as much if not more. I replied saying that I only change to better myself but there is only one girl that has my heart and that she is better then the girls I have had conversation with in the past 6 weeks. NOW this is where it gets weird she texts me three texts really fast saying: Oh Good who is it. Wait nvm i don't want to know. Sorry. ......So i said it was a beautiful girl with brown hair and a long last name (WHich is her obviously) then she replied ugh ok and the conversation ended when she said she had to go she was at the movies.... I have no clue what to think about this?
Svet74 Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 she sounds quilty for breaking up with you and feels really bad. Sounds like she is trying to keep in contact with you for comfort. Nothing more. And she said it herself she is not ready to be with anyone yet. Stay logical and listen to what she said.
Squishy_Belle Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 I think you need to break off contact with her. I think she is just being kind because she maybe feels sorry for you?? The fact that she came back with a comment like oh who is it even though it was obvious you meant her is messed up. Sounds like she is playing little mind games and it isnt fair on you.
barese1 Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 I agree with the other posts. I have heard similar things in the past. She doesn't want to be with, its just a comfort thing. Trust me you need to not contact her, its the only way when the ex behaves like this, otherwise it'll give you false hope making it harder.
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