gskyo Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 There is this guy I met online who I was talking to. We got along surprisingly well and he was texting me daily. After 2 weeks, I asked him out (not a date), stating that I am not sure if it's wise for me to feel attached to his texting when I have not met him yet. He asked why and I said I'm starting to blur the lines between liking him and the attention I am getting from him (actually, another reason that got myself really confused and it prompted me to ask him out as well, but that is beside the point), I wanted to meet to find out what this was. He said yes but acted very reluctant about meeting, like I was forcing him. I was very annoyed by this and this caused a wedge between us. We both pretended I never asked and resumed talking as per normal for another week. Now, it has completely stopped. Perhaps good to note that the last 2 conversations was initiated by me, though almost all previous communications in the weeks before was initiated by him. I have not heard from him for about another week. Is this enough time to restart? With the timeout, I realise now that while I enjoyed his virtual company daily, I do genuinely like him(well, it feels kind of like a crush). I have a few fears. 1)What if within the week of not talking to him, he found someone else online which he can show the attentive sweetness he was showing me before? 2)I'm also afraid he stopped talking to me because he genuinely decided he didn't like me enough. 3)With the rift that already exist between us, can we ever go back to the way we were before? 4)Friends say that he may just need some time off and maybe I should just wait for him to make the first move to talk to me again. 5)Other friends say that I should initiate the first move as he may be waiting for me to tell him if I am genuinely interested.... I feel so confused, please help me!
confusedheartlessbxt Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 Let him chase you.. And if he doesn't, just move on. Ppl like that have something to hide. He seemed really into you before you initiated meeting him. If he wants to talk to you, he will text or call you. Initiating contact with someone who shows you no attention is not even worth your time or fair to you.. I hope I helped.. Good luck!!
Author gskyo Posted June 21, 2012 Author Posted June 21, 2012 Yes. I get that, it makes sense. I'm not the one with the issues here, so I guess he just needs to come to the decision himself...
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