lordbodom Posted June 20, 2012 Posted June 20, 2012 I tried online dating and have been out with this one girl. We seem to have a lot in common. First date we went out for drinks and dinner, got to know each other and talked for about 3 hours. During the date we talked about hiking and she wanted to plan a hiking trip. Left the evening with a hug, i did not know if she was ready for a kiss.. After the date, we have been texting almost everyday. Went for a second date last night. Dinner and drinks again. We had a great time talked a lot. She was telling me she showed my pics to her family and they thought i was cool. She is off with her family this week on vacation and she said her mom told her that i could come too. I was like thanks, but its too early for that. She laughed. She wants me to meet her sisters and all. Dropped her home, she gave me a hug then i went in for a kiss. She seemd to enjoy. I think i know the answer already....But does she like me? Or was that kiss just a formality deal?
jobaba Posted June 20, 2012 Posted June 20, 2012 I tried online dating and have been out with this one girl. We seem to have a lot in common. First date we went out for drinks and dinner, got to know each other and talked for about 3 hours. During the date we talked about hiking and she wanted to plan a hiking trip. Left the evening with a hug, i did not know if she was ready for a kiss.. After the date, we have been texting almost everyday. Went for a second date last night. Dinner and drinks again. We had a great time talked a lot. She was telling me she showed my pics to her family and they thought i was cool. She is off with her family this week on vacation and she said her mom told her that i could come too. I was like thanks, but its too early for that. She laughed. She wants me to meet her sisters and all. Dropped her home, she gave me a hug then i went in for a kiss. She seemd to enjoy. I think i know the answer already....But does she like me? Or was that kiss just a formality deal? I would say you are inner than in. But stranger things have happened.
Author lordbodom Posted June 20, 2012 Author Posted June 20, 2012 I would say you are inner than in. But stranger things have happened. What does inner than in mean? Im a bit slow lol.
jobaba Posted June 20, 2012 Posted June 20, 2012 What does inner than in mean? Im a bit slow lol. It means that she is attracted to you and she will let you do whatever you want to her so long as you do not screw up. Plain enough?
Author lordbodom Posted June 20, 2012 Author Posted June 20, 2012 It means that she is attracted to you and she will let you do whatever you want to her so long as you do not screw up. Plain enough? Lol i thought that was the case, but just wanted a second opinion. Not gonna screw this up hopefully. She is a nice girl.
Author lordbodom Posted June 29, 2012 Author Posted June 29, 2012 Things arent really going as good as i thought they would. Dont know what went wrong. Or maybe i am just overthinking this. So she comes back from vacation, i give her a call we have a nice conversation. Ask her what shes upto this week and she says nothing much. I ask want to spend tim on Wednesday and she agrees. This is i think where i messed up. Instead of confirming something then, i said i will call tomorrow and let you know where we can go...I call the next day, doesnt pick up so i leave a message. Next day she texts me and says lets do outdoor instead. I say sure. Then later that afternoon i get a text, hey i have to run to my boss house, not sure what time i will get back . Will text u if i get back around a decent hour. I say fine and tell her to take her time beause i knew she wasnt going to show. She texts me later that evenin sorry, still here. Next day i say hey really was lookin forward, if ur not doin anything friday wanna come over. She texts back about 6 hours later, sounds funbut i dont know what im doin, was gona hang out wiht mom but will let u know if i am around. We are supposed to go on our hiking trip tomorrow which she says she still wants to do. Am i overthinkgin, have i messed up? Maybe i should have given her more headsd up in between dates. So confused:(.
jobaba Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 Things arent really going as good as i thought they would. Dont know what went wrong. Or maybe i am just overthinking this. So she comes back from vacation, i give her a call we have a nice conversation. Ask her what shes upto this week and she says nothing much. I ask want to spend tim on Wednesday and she agrees. This is i think where i messed up. Instead of confirming something then, i said i will call tomorrow and let you know where we can go...I call the next day, doesnt pick up so i leave a message. Next day she texts me and says lets do outdoor instead. I say sure. Then later that afternoon i get a text, hey i have to run to my boss house, not sure what time i will get back . Will text u if i get back around a decent hour. I say fine and tell her to take her time beause i knew she wasnt going to show. She texts me later that evenin sorry, still here. Next day i say hey really was lookin forward, if ur not doin anything friday wanna come over. She texts back about 6 hours later, sounds funbut i dont know what im doin, was gona hang out wiht mom but will let u know if i am around. We are supposed to go on our hiking trip tomorrow which she says she still wants to do. Am i overthinkgin, have i messed up? Maybe i should have given her more headsd up in between dates. So confused:(. I think you are overthinking. But heed this advice. THERE'S NO MISTAKE YOU CAN MAKE WITH A WOMAN. If she ends up not liking you, so what? It wasn't something you did unless you are officially BF/GF. Until then, she's just another gal.
Author lordbodom Posted July 2, 2012 Author Posted July 2, 2012 Yeah here i am overthinking again. But want to make sure i am not getting played or anything. i feel i am not but what do i know? So she texts me on Friday and says what you doin, she wants to hang out. I go pick her up we go out somewhere eat and drink. She seems to be interested. Laughing a lot, talking a lot. She then says if i wanna head downtown, her friend has a bday and she asked if we wanted to come and asked me if i wanted to go. I say sure. So we head downtown. We were kissing, holding, making out/etc, the whole time. Both of us seem to have enjoyed it a lot. She did get a bit tipsy though. Dropped her home, she gave me a nice long kiss goodnight and said she would call/text me the next day as we were tlaking about going out again somewhere. She doesnt text me by late afternoon so i text back, she said she had a great time and wanted to recover at home that day. Sunday i texted if she had nothing goin on to hang out, she said she had to go to her parents, which she did mention a while back... So am i overhtinking again? I have agut feeling she likes me but she doesnt seem to initiate texts/calls. She does respond to all mine though. Thoughts?
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