ConnieLu Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 Or, is it that feasible for an ugly person to be truly loved, and in turn, viewed as sexually enjoyable? Maybe they enjoy pleasing each other, but do not actually need to view them as the least bit attractive? Are you f'in serious? I already told you, yes. He made sexy moaney noises. They drove me crazy. That is such a condescending question. I wonder if ugly people are capable of love? Are they even human? do they have souls? If we prick them, do they bleed? If we dunk them in water, might they float? 1
GoodOnPaper Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 Why do you believe that average-looking women have more first-date options than average-looking men? Just my perception from personal experience and what I read on LS. When I was single, virtually every woman I chatted up had a boyfriend or fiance -- and I intentionally avoided the "hottest" women. I've read that it's a "nice guy" quality to be consistently drawn to unavailable people but I don't know how you can really prevent that when you are initially meeting someone. And on LS, who is struggling with just meeting and attracting people for date 1? Mostly men . . .
somedude81 Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 Just my perception from personal experience and what I read on LS. When I was single, virtually every woman I chatted up had a boyfriend or fiance -- and I intentionally avoided the "hottest" women. I've read that it's a "nice guy" quality to be consistently drawn to unavailable people but I don't know how you can really prevent that when you are initially meeting someone. And on LS, who is struggling with just meeting and attracting people for date 1? Mostly men . . . Of course, no woman would ever admit to that. They want us to believe that they have it just as hard
Anela Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 Of course, no woman would ever admit to that. They want us to believe that they have it just as hard I'm not getting into this with you again. Believe what you like; you're entitled to.
olddirtyspatula Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 (edited) Of course, no woman would ever admit to that. They want us to believe that they have it just as hard Men probably focus more on the strategy side because they tend to be the ones initiating contact. Most women try their best to look pretty and work with who approaches them. Two totally different approaches with completely different outlooks, concerns, frustrations, etc. I imagine men focus more on the specific targets because they know who they've approached and how the rejection stung (hence the outward bitterness towards the people they are attracted to) whereas women have the nebulous unfocused frustration that they can only turn inward because their appearance is all they can control (hence the self-centered neuroticism). Edited June 22, 2012 by olddirtyspatula incomplete thought
olddirtyspatula Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 I imagine men focus more on the specific targets because they know who they've approached and how the rejection stung (hence the outward bitterness towards the people they are attracted to) whereas women have the nebulous unfocused frustration that they can only turn inward because their appearance is all they can control (hence the self-centered neuroticism). Seriously?!? I just dropped some hard core truth bombs on this ****, and no comments? What a buzzkill. the differences between men vs women: EXPLAINED.
FitChick Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 When I was single, virtually every woman I chatted up had a boyfriend or fiance . . No they didn't. They just told you that. 1
GoodOnPaper Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 No they didn't. They just told you that. I'm sure your right . . . If you are trying to point out how undesirable I am, I've been well aware of it for about 30 years.
Nomad Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 (edited) Just my perception from personal experience and what I read on LS. Well, (again, assuming a 50/50 sex ratio) average-looking women having more 1st date options than average-looking men would imply that a greater percentage of above-average men are willing to date average-looking women than above-average women are willing to date average-looking men (below-average-looking men would, of course, also be willing to date average-looking women, but wouldn't be able to get them). Do you believe that to be the case? (Again, in my experience, it seems to be the opposite, if anything: I think I see more couples where the woman is the better-looking partner. Though, being heterosexual, my vantage point may be somewhat skewed...) Edited June 22, 2012 by Nomad
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