metalambience Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 So after literally 2000+ rejections I've realized that I'm simply unattractive and just wasting time. My problem is that I just can't get over thinking about girls. My friends say I just need to lose my virginity (I'm 24) to get over them (though I think more about having a relationship not sex). So I'm in a foreign country with legal prostitution right now and am thinking of just doing it if it will help me get over girls. Good idea? Can you really have sex and get it out of your system...or could it just make you want more?
Eddie Edirol Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 If you want to pay for it, it will help you view women differently. You wont lust over womens bodies because you wont be as horny, but you'd have to use a few prostitutes for that, and who really wants to take a chance on all of those diseases? If you really want to get a girlfriend, you need to do research on how women tick, dating dynamics and dating psychologies. (and I dont mean this site, it has no info) Only then will you really understand what you are doing wrong.
Mr Scorpio Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 So, let us say that you do take advantage. Maybe you'll have sex with a woman more attractive than you "could get" back home. Fine. But then, a year down the road you meet a sweet gal and really hit it off. Six months later, when things are getting serious, she asks about your sexual history. What are you going to say?
Seneca Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 Good idea? Can you really have sex and get it out of your system...or could it just make you want more? It's like eating your favorite food. You will never be truly satisfied... Your money would honestly be better spent on a coaching program that teaches you how to attract women. It's a better value for your money. Think about it.
MrCastle Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 I would advise against it. I vote yes, get it out of your system 24 is too late to be a virgin. But it doesn't deserve the status society gives it. So, it doesn't deserve the status society gives it, but you're saying he's too old to be a virgin and that he should pay for it? Isn't that feeding into the high status projection of sex? If it's overrated, who cares what age he loses it. If it's overrated, why pay for it? Anyway, sex is not a big deal. It really isn't. Once you get laid you'll laugh at how much emphasis you put on it.
Algermas Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 I'm going to let you in on a little secret: the vast majority of men who live in countries with legal prostitution have paid the aunties a visit at least once. And you know what? They didn't drop dead from AIDS, they didn't become rapists, and most of them didn't make it into an addiction. In fact, a lot of them lose their virginity in those places and go on to have happy relationships and marriages with women (who wink and giggle when they're mentioned, but realize its a man thing). I vote yes, get it out of your system 24 is too late to be a virgin. Ever notice how men in America are all desperate, horny, white knights that get taken advantage by women like nothing, compared sharply to the laid back, cool European stereotype that women love? I won't say I don't like sex, I do, and it's something amazing with a woman who loves you for you. But it doesn't deserve the status society gives it, it's a combination of bodily need with pleasure, think of it as taking a swig of your favorite whisky while you got your wang out sprinkling the neighbors plants. Knowing there is a place you can get sex on demand does so much to alleviate a man's psychological pleasures. Once you can find out you can alleviate that ache in your nads as well as a very human need for a woman's intimate touch with 120 euros, you can actually focus on things that might be more interesting and productive. As a European ( specifically Dutchman ) I can vouch for this. Prostitution being legal serves a dual purpose, it allows for s no strings attached release without having to prowl bars, chasing after women only to be let down and left with a pair of blue balls. It also serves to let our women know their place, when I was in the US it struck me that women think their privates are made of gold and magic. Not so in a country where prostitution is legal, at the end of the day a woman here won't be able to charge a premium for her sexuality because she knows a man can just go ahead and get his fix for an hourly fee and that's that. In the US women hold a complete monopoly on man/woman intercourse and hence have an inflated sense of power.
Eddie Edirol Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 So, let us say that you do take advantage. Maybe you'll have sex with a woman more attractive than you "could get" back home. Fine. But then, a year down the road you meet a sweet gal and really hit it off. Six months later, when things are getting serious, she asks about your sexual history. What are you going to say? You know what OP, I'll amend my post, go for it. So many women lie about their sexual/dating history to make themselves look pure in heart and intentions. Ever hear Chris Rocks bit? "Oh I only had sex with 2 guys, but the ones I banged outside the country dont count!" If you do this, you will be alot more confident, and you will get sick of hookers after a while and will want to take it to regular girls. If anyone asks you about your sexual history, you NEVER tell them that you went to hookers, most women never understand what thats about. If you tell them its because you didnt know what you were doing, they definitely wont understand. People here dont even understand. Keep it under your hat.
Author metalambience Posted June 19, 2012 Author Posted June 19, 2012 Thank you all for the advice! If a girl asks, Sexual history is no one's business. Glad to know it's not as demonic as feminists make it out to be.
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