Bucky Badger Posted June 18, 2012 Posted June 18, 2012 Some advice as to what to do would be greatly appreciated! Here is the story: I am home for the summer, and there is this girl that I like (we went to high school together). I liked her back in high school, but never said anything since we weren't that close of friends or anything. However, we are together a lot more now, as part of a large group of friends, and talk a lot more. A few weeks ago, I told her that I had feelings for her. She said that she wasn't wanting/looking for a relationship at the current time. She also said that if she were to be looking, I would be someone she would "look toward" or whatever. She said that I am a "great guy and wonderful person" as well.* A few days ago, I found out that she has feelings for another guy. I also found out that she was having a bonfire out at her house, and he was invited (along with like 15 others). When he was going out there, he told a mutual friend that he was going to "get some" and that he wanted some ***. The girl I like found out about that, and she hasn't spoke to the guy in a few days, according to a mutual friend of ours. Her best friend, the mutual friend, doesn't want her friend to be hurt by this other guy. We are good friends and the mutual friend says the girl I like is very confused and she doesn't know what she feels right now. Also, another friend of ours (a guy) had asked her out a few days after I had, and she had rejected him and said she didn't really like him. My question is, what do I do? I really like this girl, but I am not sure that I stand a chance. Any comments/help is greatly appreciated. THANKS!
TigerCub Posted June 18, 2012 Posted June 18, 2012 Some advice as to what to do would be greatly appreciated! Here is the story: I am home for the summer, and there is this girl that I like (we went to high school together). I liked her back in high school, but never said anything since we weren't that close of friends or anything. However, we are together a lot more now, as part of a large group of friends, and talk a lot more. A few weeks ago, I told her that I had feelings for her. She said that she wasn't wanting/looking for a relationship at the current time. She also said that if she were to be looking, I would be someone she would "look toward" or whatever. She said that I am a "great guy and wonderful person" as well.* A few days ago, I found out that she has feelings for another guy. I also found out that she was having a bonfire out at her house, and he was invited (along with like 15 others). When he was going out there, he told a mutual friend that he was going to "get some" and that he wanted some ***. The girl I like found out about that, and she hasn't spoke to the guy in a few days, according to a mutual friend of ours. Her best friend, the mutual friend, doesn't want her friend to be hurt by this other guy. We are good friends and the mutual friend says the girl I like is very confused and she doesn't know what she feels right now. Also, another friend of ours (a guy) had asked her out a few days after I had, and she had rejected him and said she didn't really like him. My question is, what do I do? I really like this girl, but I am not sure that I stand a chance. Any comments/help is greatly appreciated. THANKS! Don't think there is anything for you to do. You already made your feelings about her clear. She turned you down as nicely as she could. And you know she has feelings for another guy. I'm sorry, but honestly good for you for taking chances and going for it in the first place.
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