Gamesync Posted June 18, 2012 Posted June 18, 2012 So, I am going to try and keep this short. We have been dating for a year now, and I actually really have feelings for and love this girl. However she has these mood swings and she gets very irritated and aggravated very easily, and with my nature what I keep doing is I will always want to resolve the issue right away, and This has caused a problem, because I keep asking and asking and trying to fix it right away, and she gets very frustrated when I do this, she has asked me several times to not be like that, and just to leave her be so she can deal with it in her own time. However I feel that sometimes when she gets these mood swings and she decides to ignore anyone and everyone, that I should not be on that list, I am not the one that caused this and she should ask me for help and to be there with her, not get irritated with me to the extent that we don't talk. I have told her before that I hate it when she does this to me, she would simply turn her back on me and sigh deeply a few times kind of to give me a message "you need to leave me alone now" and I feel that even though at times this is okay and I need to give her space, she does not have the right to do this to me whenever she pleases and as much as she wants to, it hurts my feelings and I told her that. So what has happened is Thursday night before we went to bed there was not a single issue, everything was well, and Friday morning she wasn't feeling well and I could see that I needed to let her be, so I did, I asked her if she wanted some water and didn't say much more, then took her to work, and then yet again she turned her back on me, and I could clearly see she didn't want me there. So instead of nagging and nagging and asking to make it worse Like I normally do, I got up and left, because I was also pissed off, and didn't say goodbye, it has been like 4 days now and we haven't spoken a word. I feel that the ball is now in her court, she is the one that needs to think about this and decide if our relationship is important to her, I CANNOT go running back again and give her the benefit of the doubt "he will be back watch" Should I leave her be until she gets back to me, and if she doesn't I can assume she has already given her answer to me?
Philosoraptor Posted June 18, 2012 Posted June 18, 2012 The real question is why would you want to continue to subject yourself to this level of immaturity? You both are playing games here and really need to sit down and have a mature conversation regarding how to deal with these issues in the future. I would not put up with such behavior.
InJest Posted June 18, 2012 Posted June 18, 2012 Definitely leave it up to her. Start seeing other girls immediately, and if she gets mad, then you can tell her you assumed she ended things since she didn't contact you.
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