barriob Posted June 18, 2012 Posted June 18, 2012 Its been a while and I finally realized I need to do whats best for me. So I have been focusing on me. I stillthink about him but I have to be strong. If he wanted to text me, he would have reached out. Do I keep moving forward? I just hate having this feelong that he forgot me and no longer cares about me. Im afraid of not talking again. :/
Philosoraptor Posted June 18, 2012 Posted June 18, 2012 Yes you keep moving forward. Keep growing and becoming happier with yourself.
barese1 Posted June 18, 2012 Posted June 18, 2012 Its been a while and I finally realized I need to do whats best for me. So I have been focusing on me. I stillthink about him but I have to be strong. If he wanted to text me, he would have reached out. Do I keep moving forward? I just hate having this feelong that he forgot me and no longer cares about me. Im afraid of not talking again. :/ Most of us on this site feel that exact same way. My ex has contacted me since I went NC 3 weeks ago, and I guess its a sign that they aren't interested in reaching out to us. All we can do is focus on ourselves, and try and get rid of that hope and desire to get back what we had because truthfully its gone now
geegirl Posted June 18, 2012 Posted June 18, 2012 Its been a while and I finally realized I need to do whats best for me. So I have been focusing on me. I stillthink about him but I have to be strong. If he wanted to text me, he would have reached out. Do I keep moving forward? I just hate having this feelong that he forgot me and no longer cares about me. Im afraid of not talking again. :/ It's normal to think about him. Yes, you keep moving forward. What's the alternative? If you go back and read all your posts, you will see that nothing changes when you keep in contact with him. It's time to make different choices. When you get afraid of not talking again, ask yourself, truly dig deep and ask yourself what do you actually miss? He treated you badly, demoted you to a f*** buddy and toyed with your emotions. So, what's there to be afraid when losing someone like that from your life. You can feel sad for the loss but you have to be smart in deciding whether it's worth ever going back to something that really never made you feel special or good about yourself. Be grateful that he is leaving you alone. It allows you to heal and detach and to see him for who he is and to accept your situation as unhealthy for you. If he kept coming into the picture, you'd still be posting, "he texted, I texted back and he is now ignoring me." And even if he does contact, chances are, it will be back to the same pattern. Be strong and ride this out. You are the only one that can break the cycle.
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