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my wound has just been opened again..

skyisfalling

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skyisfalling Established Member

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I was doing so well NC day 10 and then this weekend I medicated myself with a little too much wine and called my ex and basically asked why he can't talk to me. WHY WHY WHY is it hard for him to give me a call. Well, he emailed me 10 mins ago and replied, "i had a great time being in a relationship with you and i'm pretty sure sure we'll talk again soon, you're a great girl and I hope that everything goes well for you..."

 

NOW WHAT THE **** IS THIS. I called him to cuss him out again and of course no answer. I want to send an email to him basically asking how he could just stop loving me and leave me hanging? I want to let him know how much he hurt me and tell him all the things i couldn't say to him.. since he wont pick up. Oh, I feel like ****.

 

I really just need a friend right now. Please tell me what I should do, i feel like my wound has just been opened and maggots are eating away at me...

dazedblazed New Member

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It's not that your ex is refusing to talk to you, it's that he needs time to get over it himself. He needs time to think and make sure he made the right decision (or didn't).

NC works.... sooner or later he will talk to you and you can tell him the things you want to. But right now you should give yourself time to heal as well. Keep up NC, and you will realize you either don't need to talk to him, or things will be clearer.

My long term boyfriend recently broke up with me, so I feel your pain. I'm shocked and hurt that he could suddenly stop loving me. I thought things were so great.

I'm doing NC for me, because I need time to heal. If he wants to talk to me, he knows my number.

Things will get better! I promise :)

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skyisfalling Established Member

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thank you:) I know it will get better, but we kinda wish it would get better NOW. I'm sorry about your recent break-up.. it frieken sucks realizing the love of your life is gone and now you need to adjust and adapt to a whole different lifestyle.. we're all going through it. Welcome to loveshack.

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