Tzimisce Posted June 18, 2012 Posted June 18, 2012 Hey guys I'm new here and I had a question related to dating so I decided to post here. I'm sure you guys see alot of this type of question so sorry if it isn't anything new. I'll start off describing myself. I'm a nice guy, Christian, virgin (doesn't bother me since I am a Christian), usually described as very intelligent, and pretty tall and somewhat strong (not shredded or buff or anything but people say I look strong). I'm also very shy (I do actually approach), super nerdy with interests ranging from anime to physics, its also very difficult for me to relate to other people, and I'm not very charismatic or super attractive (I wouldn't say I'm ugly though but I'm no bodybuilder or model). Now my poor success with women. I noticed women in general seem cold, distant and not very approachable. Hell I feel like I can connect to anime women better than real women and that's sad. Women just aren't ever interested in me romantically and I also noticed in the rare instances a woman does seem to have at least some level of interest in me she is either playing with me or I'm misreading her (happens alot), And finally, my question. How do you get women interested into you, and how do you find out if they are interested. Women don't seem to be ever interested in me in the romantic sense and when I think they are I'm always wrong.
Weezy1973 Posted June 18, 2012 Posted June 18, 2012 I would always suggest joining a group that satisfies your personality or taking a class that you're interested in. As a very general rule, if you are in a place where you see people regularly that are interested in the same things you are, you have a better chance of meeting someone that is a match. In other words, online dating or meeting someone randomly at a bar is kind of a waste of time because you have no idea what that person is actually like. If you are taking a class, for example, that you are interested in and someone else is taking the same class, chances are you have at least one thing in common (you're taking the same class) and, as a bonus, if you see them week after week so you give them the chance to know you better and see if they like you. Good Luck!
Author Tzimisce Posted June 18, 2012 Author Posted June 18, 2012 I would always suggest joining a group that satisfies your personality or taking a class that you're interested in. As a very general rule, if you are in a place where you see people regularly that are interested in the same things you are, you have a better chance of meeting someone that is a match. In other words, online dating or meeting someone randomly at a bar is kind of a waste of time because you have no idea what that person is actually like. If you are taking a class, for example, that you are interested in and someone else is taking the same class, chances are you have at least one thing in common (you're taking the same class) and, as a bonus, if you see them week after week so you give them the chance to know you better and see if they like you. Good Luck! Thanks for the reply. Actually I have been trying to find women through my college classes unfortunately no luck . I've even tried taking an acting class mainly to improve my speaking ability but the women there weren't interested. There is the church option but for whatever reason very few people my age go to my church just older people and children, then there is the fact people go to church for worship not dating so that would be a bad choice.
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