chelsea24_xx Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 il try to keep this as short as possible....met this guy(who i know through friends) whilst at my work (i work at an airport he was travelling) sparks flying immediately, he asked for my number ended up going on a lovely date, loads of chemistry he was mega interested and seemed really genuine and showed loads of affection. Wanted to know everything about me he didnt want the night to end was perfect. Next day i text him saying i had a nice night and should do it again sometime and he agreed. Since then he speaks to me everyday, compliments me loads etc but hasnt asked me out again! hes been really busy with work (can understand im busy with work too) i hinted about going out again after a week from our first date and he said we will have to meet up again at some point once hes finished the work he had on and apologised for not being able to see me. he then had to go offshore for a week for his work. hes now back home for a week, its now been 3 weeks since our date so i hinted again about doing something at some point, he asked when im free and then said "we will have to sort something." im so confused why not set a specific date? and lets say he isnt interested anymore (which i have asked him about cos i would rather he was straight up about it and tell me, which he says of course he is interested) why speak to me everyday still (he initiates contact btw)? still keep complimenting me and saying how he wants to see me. im very confused if anyone has any ideas i would love to hear them cos i dont know what to do?? i already have not contacted him for a few days before and he always comes running back asking whats wrong....how can i get him to ask me out again?
Philosoraptor Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 There are a ton of reasons. If you have no reason to not trust him I'd just take his words at face value and assume he is very busy.
Author chelsea24_xx Posted June 16, 2012 Author Posted June 16, 2012 thanks for the reply... wise words i think maybe im just being impatient
mortensorchid Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 Yes, it's ok to show impatience with the situation here on this forum (because that's what forums are for), but you should relax a bit more in "real life". Try no contact for a bit, let him call/text you in terms of arranging a time/place. You have already indicated that you are interested and he has responded, now leave it to him. If he doesn't get around to arranging another get together, then move on.
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