10 years now this

[Monroe83]

10 years ago I met this very h

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ansome guy one night and we have been with benefits every since.I knew from the start I never wanted a relationship with this guy. ( He was just way too smooth that = trouble). We became great friends as time went by we agreed if one of us gotten into a relationship we will not have sex with each other...(silly) This worked out fine until this year. A year ago he said he loved me and why we never dated I told him because we were playing it safe emotionally ( mostly me). He dated other women and I dated other guys (no jealously) . Last month he texts me one morning I know you are sleep but Ian coming over (after 2 months of me avoiding him because he is my weakness I want to free myself of). He picks me up soon as I opened the door we had amazing sex and Strawberry ice cream in bed on my bday. My period is a week late( Iam never ever late)took a test came up positive. I avoided all his calls after that day. So he texted me a simple text (I'm done) I told him he doesn't understand why I been so distant so I texted him I taken 3 pregnancy test all said positive ..he took offense that it took him to say (I'm done) to get me to communicate. I never intended to get pregnant by him and he knew it so I want to raise this baby alone . How can I tell him this? He already has 3 he is 28 he says he can handle anything but I have doubts. This is my first pregnancy and I dont want any drama that would take away from the experiencem

Edited June 16, 2012 by Monroe83

[wow04]

You can tell him you want to raise this baby alone, but that isn't just your choice. If he wants to be in this baby's life, you don't have a choice. This is his baby too.