picoturkey Posted June 14, 2012 Posted June 14, 2012 I've know this girl for a couple of months now and I think we have become pretty good friends. We share a lot of interests and we send playful (borderline flirty) text messages to each other. Recently she has been texting me back sparingly so I figured something was wrong, but it turned out she was just very busy. In that time she wasn't texting me back (just a couple of days) I could not think about anything else besides her. I slowly came to the realization that I really, really like this girl and I am now in a dilemma. I can't really tell if she likes me because she is friendly with everyone. One thing my friend told me though was that I seem to make her laugh a lot more than anyone else. I wanted to tell her how I feel a few times now, but each time something got in the way. I have hit rock bottom now and am thinking about sending her an email (maybe anonymous) about how I feel, but I know that she will either be flattered or creeped out. Is sending her an email truly a terrible thing?
LoverOfDance Posted June 14, 2012 Posted June 14, 2012 I think u should tell her in person. The email thing with an anonymous identity I feel is just beating around the bush. Tell her. Who knows you might get a positive response but of course definitely prepare yourself 4 disappointment as well. Good luck! Hope it works out.
Solo34 Posted June 14, 2012 Posted June 14, 2012 I've know this girl for a couple of months now and I think we have become pretty good friends. We share a lot of interests and we send playful (borderline flirty) text messages to each other. Recently she has been texting me back sparingly so I figured something was wrong, but it turned out she was just very busy. In that time she wasn't texting me back (just a couple of days) I could not think about anything else besides her. I slowly came to the realization that I really, really like this girl and I am now in a dilemma. I can't really tell if she likes me because she is friendly with everyone. One thing my friend told me though was that I seem to make her laugh a lot more than anyone else. I wanted to tell her how I feel a few times now, but each time something got in the way. I have hit rock bottom now and am thinking about sending her an email (maybe anonymous) about how I feel, but I know that she will either be flattered or creeped out. Is sending her an email truly a terrible thing? Honestly bro, terrible idea. I know you have good intentions, but females don't read it that way unless you're already an established item... You have to save those things for when you're both in love with each other. Otherwise, you just have to take it slow and ask her out. Just go slow and don't have any expectations. Just keep it casual and light and have fun together. Good luck.
2sunny Posted June 14, 2012 Posted June 14, 2012 Ask to take her out on a date. Make it special by planning things she will love.
utterer of lies Posted June 14, 2012 Posted June 14, 2012 I think u should tell her in person. No! You should not tell her in person. Love confessions suck and are pointless. What you should do instead is ask her out on a date, but without any weight added. "Hey, can I invite you for (whatever)"? and not "I love you so much. I need to be with you. Will you go on a date with me?" Seriously, telling her how you feel at this stage will only frighten her off. Especially since she reduced contact from her side, so the chance that she feels the same is quite low. And make sure you that if you get a date, you either get a kiss or a rejection.
Author picoturkey Posted June 14, 2012 Author Posted June 14, 2012 Thank you all so much for the suggestions. You all confirmed what I was planning to do anyway and I'm really glad I didn't send that email because it sure would have looked stupid now that I had some time to think about it. Another question though, besides the cliche "dinner or movie" what are some other good options for a date? (hoping I get that far)
Recommended Posts