Solo34 Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 No, YOU get over yourself. Just because someone chooses to have sex with someone doesn't give the other person the green light to be a complete, lying a-hole. LMFAO... Where is this dude "lying" to her?? Did he once say he was going to lie to her? I think you and verhrhazsianzn should both take reading comprehension courses together.
salparadise Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 When you have causal sex with someone, I don't think it's unreasonable to assume it's a causal relationship. Casual sex is casual. I hope that's obvious to everyone. Once that has been established, if you want to change the nature of the relationship, you have to bring it up. Why is that a bad thing? Bingo! And even if two people go out on a real date-date and end up in bed there is no obligation for a guy to proclaim his intentions while he's putting his sox on. If a woman only wants to have sex in the context of a serious relationship she should wait until she has a serious relationship to have sex. 1
verhrzn Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 You guys are all completely missing the point. I'm not saying she doesn't have to be honest. She should be, yes. But he should be too. He knows he's not interested; he should tell her. Simple as that. Easiest way to avoid misunderstandings and drama down the road. I am not saying he was wrong to sleep with her, or that he's somehow been tricking her so far. Just that, from this point on, he has relevant information, and he should share that. (And so should she.)
RedRobin Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 Bingo! And even if two people go out on a real date-date and end up in bed there is no obligation for a guy to proclaim his intentions while he's putting his sox on. If a woman only wants to have sex in the context of a serious relationship she should wait until she has a serious relationship to have sex. Ok, except the OP is here, not her. I believe it is on both people to make their intentions known once they become clear. Yes, I do think it is unethical to continue to go forward with a course of action once the other person has shown indications of wanting more.
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