hurting1982 Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 (edited) Its been nearly 2 months since me and my boyfriend split up. (he broke up with me) It wasnt the longest of relationships but we formed a really good bond and got on well. The relationship ended because we'd taken each other for granted and had got into a rut and things got boring which we both admit was the problem. we never argued and by the end we had become more of friends than partners. I have really started to accept the fact that we arent together, but what i do miss is his friendship. We have agreed to be friends and are keeping in touch from time to time but have limited contact. I really think i am ready to take the plunge and be there as a really good friend to him as it seems like a waste to of let things go the way they did. Me and my ex before this one are now best of friends so i dont see why it cant happen again. I just miss having him around and spending time with him but am used to the fact now that we wont be together. How should i approach him to let him know i want to start seeing him again but not give him the wrong idea that i am trying to get back together? Also what if he doesnt want this at the moment? any advice would be appreciated. I know ex's cant always be friends but its happened to me before and i want to make this work. Also he is best friends with one of his ex's too so im sure we could make this work. He really had become a good friend to me and i'll be happy for him when he meets someone who makes him happy and im sure he would do the same for me too. i do believe it to be true that an ex is an ex for a reason... but sometimes that reason is that you just make better friends. Both myself and my ex have proven this with both our ex's and i would never cross that line and go back there. Edited June 12, 2012 by hurting1982
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