thecobra Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 She's been ignoring me. I called her and she won't answer. My couzing said put pictures of you and her kissing in her facebook because if she dont call u or answer your calls or hangs up on you or says she's going out with you and when you pick her up she ain't there or don't come out or says take her home early and madd when u do go out it means she's hurting you in many ways... by hanging up on my calls, not answering my phone and so on... he says: At the end of the day...you need to do what is going to help you...not what looks best to others or what won't hurt her feelings. It is not about pettiness...she did what she had to do although it hurt you...but she had to be real with herself and do it. So why shouldn't you do the same?She will get over it... It is amazing how we try so hard to protect these people's feelings sometimes not realizing that WAIT...they hurt us...so who gives a shyt about them feeling peeved about something like Facebook. I woke up and smelled the coffee in that regard lol. what u guys think? i have dreams about her very often. last week my phone just dial by itself on her number and a picture just poped out of my briefcase and a lady at a store got it and handed back to me. I called her on saturday night but she did not picked up she has not call back... and honestly i dont plan to do it
whichwayisup Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 Delete her. She isn't answering your calls, she's ignoring you. What's the point of having her on your fb? Delete and block.
Author thecobra Posted June 12, 2012 Author Posted June 12, 2012 Delete her. She isn't answering your calls, she's ignoring you. What's the point of having her on your fb? Delete and block. thanks what about me putting pictures of me with other girls that look better than her, uploading pictures of me and her kissing before i do it? my cuz said he would have done it already. just in case so any other guy would see it, cuz she don't care if she's hurting me so why should i care... like show off a little show her i'm havng a good time a she's easily replaceable?
D-Lish Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 thanks what about me putting pictures of me with other girls that look better than her, uploading pictures of me and her kissing before i do it? my cuz said he would have done it already. just in case so any other guy would see it, cuz she don't care if she's hurting me so why should i care... like show off a little show her i'm havng a good time a she's easily replaceable? What's the point of doing something like that? Why waste the energy? That would be so petty and childish. Delete her, block her. 2
Author thecobra Posted June 12, 2012 Author Posted June 12, 2012 What's the point of doing something like that? Why waste the energy? That would be so petty and childish. Delete her, block her. she doing it. uploading pics huggin with some guy... real close. and pics showing off at the club drinking and with other guys which one of them has the same name her little cuz told me once... that she had or has a boyfriend with that same name... so she showing off showing that she having a good time that she don't care it's how i see it. i got to show her who LeBron is
Radu Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 Who's LeBron ? How old are you two ? How long have you two been together ? What happened between you two ? PS: Your cousin is right.
TaraMaiden Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 she doing it. uploading pics huggin with some guy... real close. and pics showing off at the club drinking and with other guys which one of them has the same name her little cuz told me once... that she had or has a boyfriend with that same name... so she showing off showing that she having a good time that she don't care it's how i see it. i got to show her who LeBron is Oh grow up, for goodness' sake! Stop playing games, don't stoop to her level, and just move on! It all sounds pathetic. 2
Lemontang Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 Dude! Seriously WTF? Man up dude. If your into letting her play games and you want to play too go buy Dungeons & Dragons or some crap like that. If you'd rather put a simple stop to it and show you can move on at the drop of a hat. Delete & block her, what you don't know after that won't hurt you, let alone should you care. At the same time she doesn't need to see you justifying her game with you trying to play the same with retaliatory pictures of you doing pretty much the same. Even if you don't want to move on, blocking at the least will give you both needed breathing space, and stop you posting up stuff you may later regret. In time Facebook will be as cool as Myspace, how I wait for the day with baited breath. 3
Author thecobra Posted June 14, 2012 Author Posted June 14, 2012 (edited) Who's LeBron ? How old are you two ? How long have you two been together ? What happened between you two ? PS: Your cousin is right. lebron is just a nickname... i'm 30 she's 18 about a year. she lives abroad... me in the US we started talking, she use to call me alot send me messages on FB. she added me on FB on february we met in december. she's been playing games... dont call me as often, hangs up on me... i went to her house she pulled me out of the room and closed her door and left me in the living room... after that we have almost about a month ago... i just told her when we were together at her house " thank you for trating me well " and just left. after that on my way home i just know it rained. seriously sometimes we agreed to go out when i go topick her up she sometimes was not there or her house nobody was there... WHAT DO YOU THINK WOULD BE BETTER, DELETE HER FROM FB OR BLOCK HER? MY CUZ SAID THROW THE PICS AND DELETE.. I FEEL I GOT TO DO SOMETHING BEFORE I DELETE HER TO MAKE HER FEEL REGRET... I DON'T KNOW... LOVE IS **** Edited June 14, 2012 by thecobra
TaraMaiden Posted June 14, 2012 Posted June 14, 2012 You're 30, and you don't have better things to do with your life than chase a girl barely out of her childhood? Jeesh, gimme a break, for chrissakes, get a life.... I'm sorry, but you sound like a kid, half your age....
Boulware58 Posted June 14, 2012 Posted June 14, 2012 the hardest part I have with FB is I blocked her, but I go on a different account just to see what she's doing. Fighting that urge is the hard part.
LovelyDaze Posted June 14, 2012 Posted June 14, 2012 Tara Maiden's advice is near perfection. Delete her period. If you like the feelings that you have now, continue with this charade and keep hurting yourself. If you want to heal, move forward, and find a girl that will like you without the silly games...delete your ex and stay NC. Life is too short.
rubberduck Posted June 14, 2012 Posted June 14, 2012 Are you seriously 30?! I was expecting you to say that you were 14 or something. Wow.
LovelyDaze Posted June 14, 2012 Posted June 14, 2012 Are you seriously 30?! I was expecting you to say that you were 14 or something. Wow. I try to play "benefit of a doubt." I'm thinking the OP may be 30 but possibly intoxicated or tired from lack of adequate rest.....i hope anyway. 1
TaraMaiden Posted June 14, 2012 Posted June 14, 2012 or 14.......pretending to be 30.... All guys are 9 years old anyway. 1
Author thecobra Posted June 15, 2012 Author Posted June 15, 2012 the hardest part I have with FB is I blocked her, but I go on a different account just to see what she's doing. Fighting that urge is the hard part. so you still after her anyways...
greenz Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 Don't judge the OP. Everyone needs help. Won't it be better to set him straight rather than attack him. thecobra, don't worry about her. Who cares about what she does on FB. If it helps you, block her, but don't do anything mean to try and hurt her and make yourself feel better. Act more grown up and move on with your life. If you will look to hurt her feelings just to get back at her, you will only be hurting yourself in the long run. Forget her and try and do something constructive or have a little fun. Pretty soon, she will be just a memory.
Lemontang Posted June 17, 2012 Posted June 17, 2012 Ouch, dude your 30 and you want to take a parting shot at an 18yr old kid, who in some states in the US still isn't even legally aloud to drink yet? (Put in that perspective don't you feel a bit weird now having read that?) Now not only does it spell immature to behave that way it reeks of creepy. I have no issues with age difference in the dating game, but certain ages have a whole set of different rules. If she was 30 and you were 42 this would still be considered poor behavior, but in the same vein she'd be past most of the dating discovery stuff that goes on, compared to when your 18. At 18 she'll likely date a few people by the times she's 30. Parting shots don't equal a win to something you should just let go. At the very least be the man she remembers for the right reasons, not the wrong ones.
Author thecobra Posted June 25, 2012 Author Posted June 25, 2012 Don't judge the OP. Everyone needs help. Won't it be better to set him straight rather than attack him. thecobra, don't worry about her. Who cares about what she does on FB. If it helps you, block her, but don't do anything mean to try and hurt her and make yourself feel better. Act more grown up and move on with your life. If you will look to hurt her feelings just to get back at her, you will only be hurting yourself in the long run. Forget her and try and do something constructive or have a little fun. Pretty soon, she will be just a memory. thanks boss i'm just debating between deleting or blocking. help me out dude. u seem the only one who knows
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