eleanorhurting Posted June 11, 2012 Posted June 11, 2012 I am curious as to how everyone feels about your SO talking to exes on a regular basis (texting, gchat). It has happened to me in the past and I thought it was just something that you had to accept. But that has never ended well. So from now on I have decided to speak out about it. But I have discovered people have different opinions about this matter. What do you guys think?
FitChick Posted June 11, 2012 Posted June 11, 2012 If a man has children, it's a given he will be talking to his ex about them. If there are no kids, it depends. I wouldn't be as bothered if she were happily coupled with a new guy and I had met them both.
zengirl Posted June 11, 2012 Posted June 11, 2012 Hubby has one ex he talks to sometimes. I've never met her, because she lives across the country. I have a few I talk to, not local either, but he's met the one as he and his wife, who was a friend of mine as well - I set them up - were in town last fall and we all had dinner. As long as it's not secretive and there's no baggage, I don't see the fuss.
Joaquin Posted June 11, 2012 Posted June 11, 2012 Losing a friend is often an unfortunate consequence of a break-up. My own experience is that bringing an ex into a new relationship is poison for all.
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