zigg1 Posted June 9, 2012 Posted June 9, 2012 so i joined this other job a month ago cause i had a crush on this girl who also worked there. After telling her i had feelings for her she said she does not feel the same way. BUT- now we have grown very very close after that day, she tells me things she never told anyone. And she even says so that she really trusts me and we are very very close now. texting and talking has gone through the roof with her In the past few weeks i noticed she is starting to have feelings for me. As i have started to keep my distance from her. And im not tricking myself into believing so, other co workers even tell me its obvious. The way she looks at me and hangs around me. As i am getting to know her more and more my attraction to her is fading. Shes a great girl, but she has major major parent issues, she does not seem to let go of her ex who keeps trying to get at her, She has issues with sex. And there is nothing i can do to help her, the ball is in her court And she doesnt talk to her ex anymore ever since ive been around. Thats why hes annoying her to come back So in conclusion the job im at with her is not worth my time and money, its costing me a lot to be there. And after finding all these things about her my attraction is just fading away. I told her the other day out of frustration that as much as i tell her what to do with her ex who (cheated on her) she doesn't listen so she can do whatever she wants. i guess that sort of pissed her off. But i dont care, after seeing the ammount of baggage she carrys i have lost that spark towards her cause i know it will never work out. should i tell her im quitting because my feelings for her are not as strong as they used to be because of what she has told me recently and after she has told me she doesn't have any for me it's not worth it? Or should i just tell her that im quitting because the money aint worth it? if i tell her the truth then im being honest, if i tell her its just cause of the money she will think im selfish.
TripLine Posted June 9, 2012 Posted June 9, 2012 ******* move - I'm quitting because you wont have me, am I dont like you anymore. Good move - I'm quitting because I can get a better job suitable for me. Your choice.
Author zigg1 Posted June 10, 2012 Author Posted June 10, 2012 ******* move - I'm quitting because you wont have me, am I dont like you anymore. Good move - I'm quitting because I can get a better job suitable for me. Your choice. forgot to mention we both work at another place together as well lol. the new place we joined sucks
Author zigg1 Posted June 10, 2012 Author Posted June 10, 2012 ******* move - I'm quitting because you wont have me, am I dont like you anymore. Good move - I'm quitting because I can get a better job suitable for me. Your choice. and no the main reason is that the pay is not enough so its costing me to be there, her not having me is just another downside, but like i said im losing interest in her because i know her too well now...
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