Bad_Feeling Posted June 9, 2012 Posted June 9, 2012 My girlfriend ended our relationship of 5 years. It was a long distance relationship, however we would call each other more than 3 times a day just to hear each others voice, and see eachothet every 3 months for 5-7 days, along with texting this made the distance seem less. I also gave her a very large diamond ring which she accepted gladly, and then returned after the break up. We ate an older couple and both wanted to spend the rest of our lives together. Didn't work! My question is this, since day one of the break up I have employed the no contact rule. It has been one month with no contact, and not a eord from her. So the question is, does no contact work? Any help would be good help, thanks for teading my rant. BadFeeling.
Philosoraptor Posted June 9, 2012 Posted June 9, 2012 No contact is a path to healing and moving on from the ex. Using it as a tool to get someone back is just a way to manipulate someone. Sounds like she isn't having many issues with no contact herself. Hopefully you are both healing well and find happiness in the future. We ate an older couple Oh my god... that poor couple.
Author Bad_Feeling Posted June 9, 2012 Author Posted June 9, 2012 Should have said "we AREan older couple" Give me a bresk!
ladyabstrused Posted June 9, 2012 Posted June 9, 2012 My girlfriend ended our relationship of 5 years. It was a long distance relationship, however we would call each other more than 3 times a day just to hear each others voice, and see eachothet every 3 months for 5-7 days, along with texting this made the distance seem less. I also gave her a very large diamond ring which she accepted gladly, and then returned after the break up. We ate an older couple and both wanted to spend the rest of our lives together. Didn't work! My question is this, since day one of the break up I have employed the no contact rule. It has been one month with no contact, and not a eord from her. So the question is, does no contact work? Any help would be good help, thanks for teading my rant. BadFeeling. As what Philosoraptor said, NC is usually for healing and moving on. It's a new thing for me too, I don't really know how it's done if you want to get somebody back. But I know that it helps one to move on healthily and more effectively. It seems that in your situation, the NC isn't bringing the both of you any closer. Maybe that means that's the fate of the relationship and that you need to move on? Oh my god... that poor couple. ROFLMAO I was wondering about that typo, and then saw your comment and that just made me laugh lol. Thanks.. needed that.
Philosoraptor Posted June 9, 2012 Posted June 9, 2012 Should have said "we AREan older couple" Give me a bresk! Just having a little fun. I knew what you meant. No contact will help you no matter what the outcome. If you're taking care of yourself you will cut your pain and healing time, if you both realize how to make things better that time alone can bring better things for the future. Just continue to take care of yourself and let life happen.
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