sal110104 Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 Brief background - I'm 38 divorced a few years - one child I share custody with dad. I am not looking for a "serious" realtionship - I dont really want to get married again or even live with someone - if it happened I'd be ok with it - but I am not dating to look for a husband. I met guy 1 - flirted for a while - thought we were going to go out - he disapeared. Couple of weeks later run back into him - he apologizes - we start talking again & there is a huge connection with us - good chemistry,ect.. Problem with him is his past is very checkered - some jail time, maybe organized crime connection...he claims his past is just that - but I still have a feeling he is a little on the shady side (hence the disapearing act before) - but again I am keeping him a bit at arms distance - even though I really am starting to like him. He is the kind you have fun with but dont bring home to mom - lol Guy 2 - I met around the same time through mutual friends. Unlike guy 1 there was no intial attraction but after hanging out with him a few times - I am starting to develop feelings for him. He is sweet & caring & I can see bringing him home to mom. Problem with him is that he is going overseas soon for work for 6mos at least!! So I can feel myself holding back a bit. So my dilemma is - do I keep dating both & let the cards fall where they may? I have never found myself in this situation where I truly like both guys but in different ways. Has anyone else found themselves liking more than one guy at a time? How did you handle it??
Quiet Storm Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 Lose the first guy. You are a mom and don't need the drama that he will likely bring into your life.
mtber75 Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 Brief background - I'm 38 divorced a few years - one child I share custody with dad. I am not looking for a "serious" realtionship - I dont really want to get married again or even live with someone - if it happened I'd be ok with it - but I am not dating to look for a husband. I met guy 1 - flirted for a while - thought we were going to go out - he disapeared. Couple of weeks later run back into him - he apologizes - we start talking again & there is a huge connection with us - good chemistry,ect.. Problem with him is his past is very checkered - some jail time, maybe organized crime connection...he claims his past is just that - but I still have a feeling he is a little on the shady side (hence the disapearing act before) - but again I am keeping him a bit at arms distance - even though I really am starting to like him. He is the kind you have fun with but dont bring home to mom - lol Guy 2 - I met around the same time through mutual friends. Unlike guy 1 there was no intial attraction but after hanging out with him a few times - I am starting to develop feelings for him. He is sweet & caring & I can see bringing him home to mom. Problem with him is that he is going overseas soon for work for 6mos at least!! So I can feel myself holding back a bit. So my dilemma is - do I keep dating both & let the cards fall where they may? I have never found myself in this situation where I truly like both guys but in different ways. Has anyone else found themselves liking more than one guy at a time? How did you handle it?? Guy 2 that's a no brainer especially with a little kid around you don't want guy 1's sh@t on your doorstep!
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