jakelongot Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 So not too long ago my gf and I agreed to go underwear shopping with eachother. We thought it would be a fun way to spice things up a little bit. So first we took a trip to Victoria Secret. I gotta admit, I had a lot of fun. It was was fun to pick out a few sets of underwear for her and see her model some of them for me. However, the other day we did the reverse. We went shopping for me...and here is where the problem is. I am a boxer kind of guy. 95% of what I own is boxers. I do own 2 pairs of boxer briefs which I don't wear that often. My g/f however, likes those the best on me. So at first things are going well. Pick out a few boxers and a couple pairs of boxer briefs to satisfy her. But then she wants to take it a little further. She sees a few pairs of briefs and wanted me to get them. So after a little resistence I cave. I haven't worn breifs since elementary school. I definitely felt a little uncomfortable, however they seemed to really get her going. In fact, when we got home she made me try them on and after a lot of foreplay and yada yada yada, we had some of the best sex we've ever had. So do I suck it up and get used to them (which seems to have some benefits) or let her know wearing them makes me feel weird? Or will I just get used to them again. Thoughts? Advice?
Philosoraptor Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 Pff wear them when you want to spice things up or trying to arouse her. Otherwise wear whatever you feel like wearing.
Author jakelongot Posted June 8, 2012 Author Posted June 8, 2012 Yeah...but she is making a push to have me wear them a lot more often :/
FitChick Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 Are briefs that uncomfortable? I personally hate boxers. Too "daddyish" and unsexy. I like bikini briefs on men if they have the figure for them. Don't boxers, with all that extra fabric, bunch up under your trousers? Ask her if you can go commando instead.
Ruby Slippers Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 Yeah...but she is making a push to have me wear them a lot more often :/ Tell her you'll wear them sometimes to spice it up, and will wear what you want otherwise. You standing up for yourself and what you want to do with your own junk is sexier than you always doing exactly what she wants. I dated a guy who loved for me to wear thongs. But there is no way I'm walking around all day every day with my underwear up my butt. So I only wore them occasionally - for sexy date nights or times I wanted things to be extra hot. And this worked out great.
Author jakelongot Posted June 8, 2012 Author Posted June 8, 2012 Are briefs that uncomfortable? I personally hate boxers. Too "daddyish" and unsexy. I like bikini briefs on men if they have the figure for them. Don't boxers, with all that extra fabric, bunch up under your trousers? Ask her if you can go commando instead. To give you a picture...I am 6'2" 185 lbs and have a athletic body (that's what 6 months in the gym will get you). So not to sound arrogant, but I think I pull the look off pretty well Boxers certainly do bunch up, especially in the summer. I have never really thought about switching back to briefs. They've always seemed "unmanly" and until my g/f, I didn't think women even liked that look on men. For the record the couple pairs that I now have are not "tighty whiteys". They look like this: Calvin Klein ck one Microfiber Hip Brief U8515 - Free Shipping at Freshpair.com and this: Calvin Klein 2-Pack Microfiber Stretch Hip Brief U8720 - Free Shipping at Freshpair.com Does that seem sexy? And going commando is out. Need a line of protection between my boys and my jeans / shorts / pants.
Author jakelongot Posted June 8, 2012 Author Posted June 8, 2012 Tell her you'll wear them sometimes to spice it up, and will wear what you want otherwise. You standing up for yourself and what you want to do with your own junk is sexier than you always doing exactly what she wants. I dated a guy who loved for me to wear thongs. But there is no way I'm walking around all day every day with my underwear up my butt. So I only wore them occasionally - for sexy date nights or times I wanted things to be extra hot. And this worked out great. At least him wanting you to wear thongs make sense. From my experience, whether a girls wears them occassionally or exclusively, they own at least a few pairs. Plus, they are socially acceptable. Guys on the other hand are considered "gay" or "not manly" if they are wearing briefs.
Ruby Slippers Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 Guys on the other hand are considered "gay" or "not manly" if they are wearing briefs. I fail to see how wearing something that makes a woman want to jump your bones makes you gay. My last lover wore baggy boxers the first few times we had sex. They did NOTHING for him. Then, one day, he came over in form-fitting boxer briefs, which SHOWED OFF HIS VERY FINE BUTT AND PACKAGE. I couldn't keep my hands off him, and almost every time I fantasize about him now, I think about his package in those form-fitting, sexy boxer briefs. I didn't see that guy long enough to get him into something skimpier - but I had my last boyfriend wearing tight, silky briefs that I got him for his birthday. At first he said he felt like a kid in underoos, but that faded fast once I threw him in bed and had my dirty way with him. Let go of your hangups and you will have a lot more fun 2
Author jakelongot Posted June 8, 2012 Author Posted June 8, 2012 hmmm... WOuld it be fair to say if you have the body type for it women would prefer their guy in boxer briefs / briefs vs. baggy boxers.
january2011 Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 In answer to your OP, it really depends on if the potential of having great sex outweighs your momentary discomfort (presumably you're not going to be wearing them for long) - this is a question that only you can answer as the willingness to bypass comfort levels is individual. RE your latest post, if the guy keeps in shape, then yes, 'hipsters' trump boxers, in my opinion. I've never considered Y-fronts particularly attractive, though if sex is on the cards, the underwear choices don't particularly matter because all or most of it is going to end up on the floor anyway.
Author jakelongot Posted June 8, 2012 Author Posted June 8, 2012 In answer to your OP, it really depends on if the potential of having great sex outweighs your momentary discomfort (presumably you're not going to be wearing them for long) - this is a question that only you can answer as the willingness to bypass comfort levels is individual. RE your latest post, if the guy keeps in shape, then yes, 'hipsters' trump boxers, in my opinion. I've never considered Y-fronts particularly attractive, though if sex is on the cards, the underwear choices don't particularly matter because all or most of it is going to end up on the floor anyway. Sex is certainly in the cards as being "sexy" was a motivating factor for the trip in the first place. By "hipsters" do you mean boxer briefs or either boxer briefs and briefs? I'm guessing you like tight becasuse it shows off more of the package? Are boxers unsexy on a fit guy?
january2011 Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 Sex is certainly in the cards as being "sexy" was a motivating factor for the trip in the first place. By "hipsters" do you mean boxer briefs or either boxer briefs and briefs? I'm guessing you like tight becasuse it shows off more of the package? Are boxers unsexy on a fit guy? I mean like these: http://images.freemans.com/is/image/OttoUK/cloudzoom/Calvin-Klein-Pack-of-3-Hipster-Briefs~210941FRSP.jpg And no, not about the package. I like the way the shorts look on the thighs, across the hip bones and across a taut stomach. And presumably, since he is fit, they would also fit nicely across the back with just the right amount of emphasis - two hardboiled eggs in a hankerchief! Non-short-like briefs are just a little too 'posing pouch' for me - which is okay on occasion but not my preference as I find them a little 'cheesy', for want of a better word. It's not that boxers are unsexy on a fit guy, it's just that I have a preference for hipster briefs. However, if he's uncomfortable, I would much rather that he wore something else. Though granted, as I wrote earlier, he's probably not going to be wearing them for very long.
veggirl Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 What is it she likes so much about briefs? I mean like tighty whities? Boxers are hideous. They are for little boys and old men. Briefs or tighty whities are for 5 year olds. Boxer briefs :love: how are they uncomfortable? Anyway, boxer briefs sound like a compromise. I wouldn't wear the little boy briefs either, so I understand your hesitation with that! Offer the compromise and if she doesn't like it, bust out the briefs on occasion for her but don't worry about wearing them daily.
Ruby Slippers Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 Baggy boxers for men are basically the equivalent of granny panties for women. They can be cute and sexy in some ways, but something more form-fitting is better and way sexier. In my opinion... Good: Calvin Klein Body Boxer Brief U1705 - Free Shipping at Freshpair.com Better: C-IN2 Core Sling Support Lo No Show Army Trunk 4035 - Free Shipping at Freshpair.com Best: Calvin Klein Body Brief U1709 - Free Shipping at Freshpair.com
Author jakelongot Posted June 8, 2012 Author Posted June 8, 2012 I mean like these: http://images.freemans.com/is/image/OttoUK/cloudzoom/Calvin-Klein-Pack-of-3-Hipster-Briefs~210941FRSP.jpg And no, not about the package. I like the way the shorts look on the thighs, across the hip bones and across a taut stomach. And presumably, since he is fit, they would also fit nicely across the back with just the right amount of emphasis - two hardboiled eggs in a hankerchief! Non-short-like briefs are just a little too 'posing pouch' for me - which is okay on occasion but not my preference as I find them a little 'cheesy', for want of a better word. It's not that boxers are unsexy on a fit guy, it's just that I have a preference for hipster briefs. However, if he's uncomfortable, I would much rather that he wore something else. Though granted, as I wrote earlier, he's probably not going to be wearing them for very long. These have the y-front, but I would not object to what you posted above. What is it she likes so much about briefs? I mean like tighty whities? Boxers are hideous. They are for little boys and old men. Briefs or tighty whities are for 5 year olds. Boxer briefs :love: how are they uncomfortable? Anyway, boxer briefs sound like a compromise. I wouldn't wear the little boy briefs either, so I understand your hesitation with that! Offer the compromise and if she doesn't like it, bust out the briefs on occasion for her but don't worry about wearing them daily. FWIW...they are not "tighty whiteys" they are colored briefs...something more along the lines of: Funky Urban Mens Brief Charcoal :: Men's :: Underwear :: FunkyUrban.net | Funky Urban Progressive Clothing for Guys,Girls,Men, & Women Miami : T-shirts,Trucker Hats,Caps,Beanies,Sweaters,Bags,Sexy Underwear
veggirl Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 FWIW...they are not "tighty whiteys" they are colored briefs...something more along the lines of: Funky Urban Mens Brief Charcoal :: Men's :: Underwear :: FunkyUrban.net | Funky Urban Progressive Clothing for Guys,Girls,Men, & Women Miami : T-shirts,Trucker Hats,Caps,Beanies,Sweaters,Bags,Sexy Underwear Oh gotcha, thanks. Yeah I don't see the appeal in those TBH. I wonder if you guys go swimming would she be vying for a speedo on you? anyway, if you want to try the briefs for a week or so, I'm sure you'll get used to them quickly. Personally i would not change all my undies for my partner if I didn't want to and you don't want to. I'd bust them out for a sexy surprise but day to day I'd wear what *I* want.
Author jakelongot Posted June 8, 2012 Author Posted June 8, 2012 Oh gotcha, thanks. Yeah I don't see the appeal in those TBH. I wonder if you guys go swimming would she be vying for a speedo on you? anyway, if you want to try the briefs for a week or so, I'm sure you'll get used to them quickly. Personally i would not change all my undies for my partner if I didn't want to and you don't want to. I'd bust them out for a sexy surprise but day to day I'd wear what *I* want. I guess i'm looking forward to this being a fun experiment. Bottom line, if i don't like them, i'm moving on. I guess it would be like me wanting her to wear a gstring. If she doesn't want to do it, she won't. I don't think she would want me in a speedo though. I think that is just uncomfortable for everyone
maybealone Posted June 9, 2012 Posted June 9, 2012 Guys on the other hand are considered "gay" or "not manly" if they are wearing briefs. ??? As long as they are not plain white and loose fitting, I don't think there is anything unmanly about them. Personally, I like a man in boxer briefs but briefs that are colored and fit well would be nice. I'd give them a try and see if you could get used to them, and if you can't, just save them for special days.
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