LoverOfDance Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 So this is an update on a post I made a few days ago. I'm trying to get over this guy who already has a girlfriend and trust me it's been no walk in the park. This is my 9th attempt I think. The first time I stayed away 4 about two weeks and ended up going back to class(dance class). The second time was about three weeks. The longest I've been away from him has been 6 weeks. The 8th time I think I was away from him for about 5 weeks. Anyways I've been getting really frustrated about this back and forth thing and I wanted this to be my last try but I realized I don't think I can do that. As hard as this maybe for me I just don't think I have a choice but to keep trying since he is already with someone. The problem however is that this trying to stay away from him thing is preventing me from doing things that I want/need to do. There's a dance competition coming up and I want to participate but I can't because I'm pretty sure he's gonna be there. There are a few dance events coming up as well and I can't go cause I know he's gonna be there. I've already missed some really big events because I've been trying to stay away from him. Really don't know what to do. He even knows I'm avoiding him. I didn't tell him of course but he knows which makes me really sad but there's nothing I can do about it. I have to do what's best for me. But I don't want this process of getting over him to disrupt my life instead of making it better. Not sure what to do. What do you guys think?
nessaaa Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 that's the worst eh? having to see them. I was in this same situation... but it was in school and he was my ex bf. what I did was change classes I had with him. i blocked him out of my mind.. not much i could have done I was bound to see him. don't let him chase you away, hold your head up high and try not giving a **** as best as u can... or change/drip out of that dance studio.
mortensorchid Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 I was in your situation years ago. When I was active with my college radio station I had something with a loser there, he dumped me. We had to see each other all the time since we were both on the board there. I tried chatting with him to be friendly enough, soon I began to realize he was just completely anti-social and didn't like anyone. I got over it, we took care of business and that was that. Side note: When I say he was a loser, I mean it. He was bent on getting the job of Music Manager which had a tremendous responsibility, and then he got the job. Then he quit because it was too much work and left us high and dry. I'm sure he continues to disappoint others today.
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