TooLate2Care Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 How much does a guy like a girl if he asked her out 6 times over the course of 2 years and still stayed with her even though she rejected him? Guys, does that mean you care about this girl a lot? If you do, then will you act cold towards her sometimes if you find out another guy likes her for 4 years? I'm the girl here and recently talked things out with the guy. I wanted to give him a chance but some things came along and now we are in the really awkward mode. He was like my best friend and I'm sure he sees me the same. How do I break the ice? He doesn't seem like he wants to talk to me anymore. I don't know if it because things are awkward now or he doesn't like me anymore. The last time he told me he will give up this relationship and wish me luck with another guy. Then he started acting weird in school, I think he feels weird because he expressed his feelings seriously. He told me he loves me and stuff like that. The other times he just asked me non-seriously and joked about it when I reject him. That is why we can still be cool toward each other. This time he asked really differently and it was so awkward after he did that, especially since he text it. We can't joke about it after and let it go. This time he didn't even give me the option to say yes or no. He just told me his feelings and wished me luck with other guys. By the time I was able to check his text (I was at work), he didn't reply back. The next day, we were at school and I didn't confront him because I don't want things to turn really really awkward. He doesn't act like himself anymore and was a bit distant. It was like we broke the bond we used to have. If anyone here ask someone out and she/he rejected you, then you will understand the awkwardness after a rejection. After that period of time, he still helps me a bit with my school work. I chose to distance myself from him though. I sat in the back of history class with the other guy who liked me. I'm not sure if that is why he's not talking or anything. The thing is the other guy hangs out with our group and there's nothing I can do to avoid him. I don't know if he still cares about me or anything. I really want to be friends with him again. Guys, if you are in this situation, how are you actually feeling? I can't put myself in his shoes since I am not a guy. I just really want to know what is he thinking. He probably thinks I lead him on and doesn't consider dating him at all, but I did told him I will but it will be hard since he will be attending Brown at RI next year and I won't see him anymore. I personally don't trust long distance relationship. And he was like, it's okay and he wished we go out and stuff like that. I don't know if he thinks that I'm leading him on and I don't know if hes mad. Guys, please answer this. I already got out of school and graduation is on Wednesday. After that, I won't see him anymore.
Oxy Moronovich Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 Is this high school romance? In any case, yes, that sounds like he really cares and is interested. 6 rejections over the course of 2 years? Most guys would have given up after the first. I know I would have. Plus, I would have gone cold to her. But yes, this dude does care.
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