JoeSmith94 Posted June 1, 2012 Posted June 1, 2012 Hi loveshack community, This is how it goes: me and this girl became close friends three months ago and recently (like a month ago). It all started from a little favor. I asked her help to get close to her friend, whom I loved. It was pointless since she couldn't do nothing for me and her friend and we never got together: today we hardly speak. But that's what troubles me today. Since that little favor we started to talk about everything, recently (couple of weeks ) we even started to talk about our ideal partner, or mostly she talked about it as she already knew mine . Today, I say we could be considered as best friends, but if I think about our status I wouldn't want to stay friends, at all. Something built inside me for this girl, but there is an issue: she is already in a relationship. My view of her relationship is fairly bad: not because I want her so desperately, on the contrary, I feel for her. She and her man aren't this compatible and she mostly yells at him and break up for some days and then get back again. She once said that she likes him, but that was three months ago. Today I sense the feeling isn't that intense as it was three months ago. From what she told me, her actual man isn't that romantic and that they have quarrels tells me he isn't that much caring too. I feel for her, and I think that's why I built feelings for her lately. She cares for me, as a friend, too. But I would like to tell her my feelings and maybe she would decide to break up with the actual guy and be with me. Therefore comes my question too: would it be wise to slowly tell her I like her? or leave her be? P.S. We're classmates, but this will be the last year when we'll be together in a class. I'm transferring somewhere else and she is staying, hence we won't be classmates anymore. And if there something unclear feel free to ask for insight. Thanks in advance!
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