fisherman58 Posted June 1, 2012 Posted June 1, 2012 I lost my wife of 24 yrs in February this year. It was a long slow decline, she had alzhiemer and really was more like a child that I cared for the past 2 years of our marriage. After the funeral I decided to get away and go to the beach for a month after her funeral. I post on facebook that I am on the coast. A lady from my church whom I do not really know, emails me and wants to come "visit" I pick her up at the airport and she stays with me till I go back home. We got along great!! When I drop her off at her home she tells me that she just wanted to help me and that she wants to be "friends, nothing serious" I was very disappointed to hear those words. I told her that I wanted more and that if she was not willing to give more that I did not want keep seeing her. We break up. Two weeks go by and she comes back to me saying she wants a serious relationship. She moves in to my home and thing go great for 2 weeks. We have our first fight over small stuff, she ends the relationship and moves her stuff out. We had agreed that evening that we would set a date for marriage after the first of the year. Two hours later she is gone over a small disagreement. One week goes by and she is back again but saying we moved too fast and that we need to slow things down and take it slow. I agree to the terms. last night she tells me that we should goto Vegas and get married sooner. I do not know what to think. She tells me that I am the best in bed that she has ever had and does not want to loose that. I want more than sex I want a real relationship. She tells me that she broke up last time because she said she has been single too long and can not make a commitment.
JJ72 Posted June 1, 2012 Posted June 1, 2012 I'm sorry for the loss of your wife. My condolences. The new woman sounds fuggin koo-koo. Just have fun w/ her and do not get emotionally attached. If you do, she will fvkk your head up. You will only have yourself to blame.
g450 Posted June 3, 2012 Posted June 3, 2012 I agree with JJ. Next time she leaves you let it be permanent. You dont need a yoyo lover who lives off drama. My guess is that your lady is single for a really good reason.
CopingGal Posted June 7, 2012 Posted June 7, 2012 You started dating a month after your wife's funeral? I think you need to take a long, long, time to just heal, dear. Sorry about your wife.
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