confused2385 Posted June 1, 2012 Posted June 1, 2012 Hi. If you don't know my story here it is.http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/327731-just-broke-up-devastated Anyways i'm on day three of NC and it has been miserable and only getting worse, but I know it's for the best. Still haven't fully accepted it, but I truly hope too. Here is my predicament late last night my ex texted and said listen to Alex Clare Too Close it's speaking to me angry plays every time I open Pandora. What does this mean I don't know what to think and it hurts listening to the song. Advice or guidance please. In a tough spot
Philosoraptor Posted June 1, 2012 Posted June 1, 2012 First I'd say to ignore your ex as it's causing you pain. I'd also not do anything suggested by someone you're no longer in a relationship with. Otherwise the basics are in need which are taking care of yourself and fostering your own growth. Also living in the moment rather than in the past or future, just enjoy what is going on rather than worrying about where you've been or where you're going.
Author confused2385 Posted June 1, 2012 Author Posted June 1, 2012 Yes I know. It's just so hard. I literally can't make it through a entire song without thinking of her and the last I heard she was heart broken and was saying the things you take fire granted cause that. Now she's saying she's too close wtf does that mean. I hate this torture I enjoy nothing now and hold no excitement for daily life. I just hope for everyday to end once I get up. I don't know what to do
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