hurting1982 Posted May 31, 2012 Posted May 31, 2012 I've gone against no contact again n met up with my ex to get closure on why things didn't work out. We both agreed that we'd got in a rut and because of boredom and not doing anything every night the spark went. We've said that we've got no reason to fall out and were gonna give each other some space and just keep in touch from time to time and try be friends in the ling run. The thing playing on my mind now tho is why the hell didn't I fight for my ex when he finished it. I should of tried to make him see things weren't bad n worked on things. Now I just feel like I let him go when I shouldn't of. If that's the only reason we split then I feel like I should of put up a fight for him. Have I been stupid?
Philosoraptor Posted May 31, 2012 Posted May 31, 2012 You can't fight for someone who has made a choice to leave. The decision to come back has to come from him internally. Anything other reason to come back is coming back for the wrong reasons, and it usually ends again as that person knows they didn't come back by choice.
Recommended Posts