Derevko Posted May 29, 2012 Posted May 29, 2012 I thought I had packed up everything she had at my place and given it to her when we broke up. But I keep finding things everywhere. Most of it isn't important and can be thrown out. Some goes in a memory box which would be nice to open sometime down the road (a long time!) when it doesn't hurt me and reminisce about the happy moments. But I did find a few things of hers I forgot I had. Things that I know are important to her, family heirlooms, etc. I was the one to initiate NC, and I'm not going to break it. But at the same time, I don't think its right to keep these items. I don't want to mail them to her, give her false hope, and have her try to break NC. In this situation, would it be appropriate for me to send these things to her friend? And maybe ask her not to give them to my ex until she's had more time to heal?
LostInLimbo Posted May 29, 2012 Posted May 29, 2012 If you were the one who let her go (for you reasons) I would say give them to a mutual friend, because yes it would give her false hopes, just like anyone, they are at there most vunerable and everything comes to mind about getting back, then analyzing comes into play which is a killer. If you were on the recieving end of being dumped, then I would text her and let her know, in very brief fashion, to leave it in her hands... All the best LiL
Philosoraptor Posted May 29, 2012 Posted May 29, 2012 I would do a thorough sweep of things and box everything you'd like to return to her. I'd agree with giving it to one of her friends rather than delivering them yourself.
Author Derevko Posted May 29, 2012 Author Posted May 29, 2012 Thanks for the advice guys. I'll do a final sweep this weekend and give everything to her friend.
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