proteinshake25 Posted May 27, 2012 Posted May 27, 2012 Been dating for 5 months. I've had an issue with her flirting,getting spanked,touching other guys right in front of me. Her excuse is her male friends are bisexual. But she agreed she'd stop. Yesterday we're with her group of friends and she's taking pics and touching another guy's face. Admiring his facial hair. This guy is straight, with a girlfriend. On the way home, we're arguing and I called her a name, told her I lost alota respect for her, she didnt deserve me,etc, and maybe we shoukd breakup. She gets out the car. I call her 30 mins. Later checking to see that she's safe. Her friend answers telling me. That my ex deleted my number and for me to have a nice life. I haven't been able to sleep. Outside of the flirting she's a dream come true, and I think the world of her. I know I made the mistake of saying some things in anger. I've texted her seeking to reconcile and have no response. What do I do now? Go nc?
Sazerac Posted May 27, 2012 Posted May 27, 2012 Go NC. The girl had no respect for you and your boundaries and wishes, all of which were beyond reasonable. Let her go - as you said, you deserve far better than what she gave you. 1
Author proteinshake25 Posted May 27, 2012 Author Posted May 27, 2012 This is terrible. I wrote her a lengthy mesaage. I then blocked all communication a few hrs after. Can one serious arguement. Really ruin an entire relationship? We were very serious talking about children and marriage, and one thing like this takes all that away. Is there any repair?
Balzac Posted May 27, 2012 Posted May 27, 2012 Interesting that you sum this to one argument. It's more expansive and it is your comfort zone that was repeatedly breeched. You have boundaries, she disrespected those. You brought it to her attention, her behavior persisted, you confronted her~~game over. Save your self respect!! Move on.
Mack05 Posted May 28, 2012 Posted May 28, 2012 (edited) Protein I don't need to read your thread here. I've read your threads in the past. The problem is not this girl. The problem is you never properly dealt with the aftermath of your previous relationship before last..you filled an emotional gap in you the wrong way..I did that too (so is my ex right now)..auto bad choice... Its only starting...Its like putting a plaster over a HUGE unattended wound that keeps bleeding slowly in the background..Denial and fooling oneself is LETHAL!!!5 months together yet on March 1st (on this very forum), u were still asking questions about a girl that is NOT your latest.... Edited May 28, 2012 by Mack05
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