Tres Posted May 27, 2012 Posted May 27, 2012 My friend is a nice person but a kind of Gold digger. She was dating a guy who was a kind of Cazanova. He was handsome, flirtry, fit, wealthy and popular with women. He has had a lot of adventures with women and they loved him very much. He is super good at sex even he is now 53 y.o. The point is that my friend has used him for sex and money and she got old with him because he was not really giving in terms of money. Anyway, he asked her to marry him. She said 'yes' first, then later, she broke up with him. And, she was sorry to hurt his feelings because he told her that he had a huge love for her. But, He has handled the rejection well. Do you think a Cazanova is capable of suffering over rejection? Do you think a Cazanova might experience any real feelings for women except sexual desire to use their bodies? Is he probably taking the rejection easy and going out with another girl next day?
freetolove Posted May 27, 2012 Posted May 27, 2012 probably, he still feels the pain but just got really well with getting over it quickly.
Freddys Posted May 27, 2012 Posted May 27, 2012 When a "Cazanova" admits a huge love, probably he means it. But at the same time, he can "easily" MOVE ON . . 1. Yes, he is suffering, 2. Off course he experienced REAL feelings, 3. He will not take it easy but he has the ego to move on.
Author Tres Posted May 27, 2012 Author Posted May 27, 2012 When a "Cazanova" admits a huge love, probably he means it. But at the same time, he can "easily" MOVE ON . . 1. Yes, he is suffering, 2. Off course he experienced REAL feelings, 3. He will not take it easy but he has the ego to move on. When I call a man a "Cazanova" I mean a man who admits a huge love to every girl he wants to f...k. Also, he has no real love for anyone because he is a player.
Brit Posted May 27, 2012 Posted May 27, 2012 When I call a man a "Cazanova" I mean a man who admits a huge love to every girl he wants to f...k. Also, he has no real love for anyone because he is a player. With this added information, then my answer to your original question should not be too surprising in that, yes, he is sobbing uncontrollably, while nose deep in another's muff:)
Fondue Posted May 27, 2012 Posted May 27, 2012 He will probably use this experience to further continue his lifestyle and reject the idea of settling down. I assume that suffering through a rejection such as that really makes you re-evaluate your situation and grows a certain disdain for the opposite sex. He's probably not going to be serious about relationships any time soon, which is probably good for him-- but unfortunate for any possible "good" woman that would want his time.
irin Posted May 27, 2012 Posted May 27, 2012 everyone has emotions and weaknesses weather they admit it or not, they might hide it better or ignore it, but they are still vulnerable to suffering emotionally. also women need to stop sleeping with these so called casanovas, self proclaimed "studs" they are just wh*** whos d***s been in every vagina,
Ninjainpajamas Posted May 27, 2012 Posted May 27, 2012 Doesn't sound like much of a Casanova to me just because he's had looks and money to assist him along the way, nor would it mean he is not one...however being that he ended up with a gold-digger means that he me that is cost him a pretty penny to "romance" these women. At any rate, this guy took a huge blow to the ego when she rejected him...because it doesn't matter what he used to do in his past, that doesn't represent him...he just got turned down on a marriage proposal...that's huge for mr dos equis man, huge blow to the pride and to his emotions. He's just got too much pride to show it, he won't show it up front or for others to so, but that's pretty huge...especially If he made the rounds without having to marry any of these women in his past and this is his first marriage proposal (however something tells me this is doubtful with the way this guy sounds)...bottom line, It hurt, especially on how many years she was with him and he probably figured a gold digger would have wanted some of that wealth...the fact that he can't get her to marry him is huge for don juan. 1
RedRobin Posted May 27, 2012 Posted May 27, 2012 It always stings when the mo-jo one has been working for years doesn't work when you want it to. Applies to every situation regardless of gender.
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