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Assume it's a date or just friends?


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So a couple months ago I had gone out once with this girl from OLD. I had asked her out a second time but she responded saying that she didn't feel a romantic connection. I brought up the idea of being friends and she said yes quickly.

 

Since then on occasion I've asked her to hangout or join me for certain events. Either she has to work or has been out of town the few times I've asked...and she responds pretty quickly to my texts. She also knows that I've been away on vacation for the past 2 weeks overseas, as I texted her before I left. Upon returning I asked her to join me for a music festival, but she was out of town. Though she quickly asked if I wanted to join her for a food festival this weekend and I said yes. I didn't set a time. Then 2 hours later she checked with me to see if x time worked and if we could meet near the train, and I agreed.

 

However the catch is that she's on the OLD site daily I've noticed.

Now the thing is I don't know if tomorrow is a date or just hanging out. Do girls that are friends with guys set plans and a time to meet a week in advance? Or do they do it with guys they are interested in?

 

I'm surprised because this is the first time she's invited me to go out and do something with her.

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she wants to be friends. I don't mind having a friend who's cool to chill with. you agreeing to be friends = friend zoned. I'm a girl so I know.

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