crazyaboutcrazy Posted May 21, 2012 Posted May 21, 2012 A question for any women who might read this...can you ever really forgive and forget the bad things that happened in a relationship? I drove the woman I loved away through my anger. Everytime she finds herself wanting to kiss me, visions of the incidents flash back in her head and it kills the moment. It's been almost three months since she left, and I suspect I will never be able to make it up to her, no matter how much I try to show her kindness and support. Has anyone been able to forgive and forget, or does it take years? I've always believed that once the rot sets in, nothing can be saved...
DuchessKaye Posted May 21, 2012 Posted May 21, 2012 I can always forgive, but I can never ever be the same.
smint Posted May 21, 2012 Posted May 21, 2012 I could forgive,I believe that it is important to forgive each other,and to change each other for better relationship.
Hope4anangel Posted May 21, 2012 Posted May 21, 2012 I could forgive but things would be different for me.
WongHua Posted May 22, 2012 Posted May 22, 2012 In my experience, it's not that hard to forgive, but it is to forget. Whatever you did to her that hurt her made her lose trust in you, and she won't be able to feel the same way again until you two start rebuilding that trust. Maybe not even then, but hey it's better to try your best and fail, than to give up and then have the "Would she have forgiven me if i tried?" stuck in your head. Just my opinion, hope it helps.
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