sameoldsameold Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 Would be grateful for some advice pls, started dating new guy about two months ago. Met him online three months ago and emailed each other everyday for first month. Met up and first date was unbelievable, much better than I cd've expected! After date 4 he asked me if I felt our paths were just meant to cross as he thought we got on so well with each other! We met up most weekends since then but in last week there's been no date. He had minor surgery week before last and I offered to help him out for a few days as he was restricted to what he could duo. Stayed 2 nights, only intended to stay one but he was very welcoming and asked me would I stay second. Haven't seen him in last week but he has phoned/ texted me each day. I know he had no plans this weekend but yet he never suggested meeting up. So my question is how often is it realistic to meet up in the first few months?, I wd've thought once a week acceptable and even better if there's more dates! So to set the scene, We're both in our mid 30's, both living in uk about half hour from each other so distance not an issue, not into multi dating, no children on either side. Head a bit confused, I really really like this guy and I could easily fall in love with him, but don't want to get hurt! All opinions welcome... And thanks :-)
NateC Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 Seems like he's being a little cautious as to not drive you away. Maybe do a bit of suggesting yourself? If he has any questions about whether you're interested in him that might answer that for him.
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