xqtionr Posted May 19, 2012 Posted May 19, 2012 Hi everyone, I would greatly like some help. Im engaged to a beautiful woman with 4(yes four) kids. Ages 6-15. I dearly love this woman. But the problem im having is she has attachment issues. We have only been alone in the same room twice in the past three months because the kids are always around. This is a problem for me. I want to be romantic but it's really hard with the kids around because I usually end up playing with them instead of her. Does anybody have any ideas?
USMCHokie Posted May 19, 2012 Posted May 19, 2012 Hi everyone, I would greatly like some help. Im engaged to a beautiful woman with 4(yes four) kids. Ages 6-15. I dearly love this woman. But the problem im having is she has attachment issues. We have only been alone in the same room twice in the past three months because the kids are always around. This is a problem for me. I want to be romantic but it's really hard with the kids around because I usually end up playing with them instead of her. Does anybody have any ideas? Yes. Leave. Why are you trying to force a situation which you have so many issues with...? I counted five so far...
mesmerized Posted May 19, 2012 Posted May 19, 2012 Yes. Leave. Why are you trying to force a situation which you have so many issues with...? I counted five so far... LOL, the last 4 issues were essentially the same thing. That's what comes with dating a woman with 4 kids. Dont you guys get alone time at night?
USMCHokie Posted May 19, 2012 Posted May 19, 2012 LOL, the last 4 issues were essentially the same thing. One huge glaring issue can often be more noticable if broken down...although they are all related, they can also all operate independently of each other...
mesmerized Posted May 19, 2012 Posted May 19, 2012 One huge glaring issue can often be more noticable if broken down...although they are all related, they can also all operate independently of each other... Not in this case really lol The whole point was it's hard to be alone with 4 kids. The rest are the results of this issue and are not independent from it.
Author xqtionr Posted May 19, 2012 Author Posted May 19, 2012 (edited) I love all 5 of them dearly and i dont have a problem with playing and doing stuff with them. I just wish we had a bit more alone time. and as for the night time, that's another sticky situation. Parents house, strict catholic father. Im not much better, my aunts house. PS: SEMPER FI! Devil dog. Edited May 19, 2012 by xqtionr
DjinnAgain Posted May 19, 2012 Posted May 19, 2012 Discuss it with her and make plans for more alone time. There should always be date nights and time alone. Most my friends have 3-6 kids and they say it never happens unless you PLAN it. That's biological or step children when there's that many about. What are the ages of the children? How to plan it can be different depending on that.
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