irc333 Posted May 17, 2012 Posted May 17, 2012 Some men are into butts, some into legs, me...I'm simple minded...I like breasts/cleavage, etc. But when talking to a woman I don't look at 'em, with the exception of using my peripheral vision. You have to question whether or not they are "pushing" their already big boobs out even further or making them more obvious than they are depending on the POSE they're in during the photo opp. Some take pics of them wearing low cut blouses, pushing the tops of their arms towards their cleavage, letting them "pop out" a little more out of the blouse, enhancing it. I recently had saw a woman, looks like she was at some kind of wedding (had to have been a Vegas chapel considering her dress.) She had actually a nice dress on that went all the way to the floor, but why show off legs, when you can show off those enormous cans? Holy crap, it looked like she could use 'em to carry the Titanic out of the water or she wouldn't need a life preserver if a ship went down. She looked like she had a low cut bridesmaid outfit on...and she seemed to look as if she was sticking her chest out deliberately...it was more of a "Side-view" photo, in good taste otherwise. Now, considering how we had some O.L.D. dating posts here where people had sent emails and never to get a response, lately, I figured....I'd might make a remark (in good taste) about those lovely globes since they're making us aware of them....perhaps make some light EUPHEMISTIC joke about those lovely globes. Nothing vulgar, but some remark more comical or funny, in a complimentary way. I have to recall, how some women had added in their profiles, "Thanks for the comments and the emails....." apparently her cleavage had paid off, and she's acknowledging the "fan mail" lol. But it seems they're wanting attention. Never know, wouldn't hurt to remark on the, what's she going to do NOT respond? LOL A lot of us men don't get responses anyways.
LittlePrince Posted May 17, 2012 Posted May 17, 2012 These are women to ignore while OLD as well as women with bar photos, women in a pic with a guy she wants to be involved with, and women standing in a photo next to a more attractive woman so you have to second guess which one is her.
RiverRunning Posted May 17, 2012 Posted May 17, 2012 I'm with LittlePrince. As someone who's also into women (although not as much as men! ) - it's a turn-off when I see a girl who has showy pictures up. It makes me think that she's attention-needy and attention-hungry, and that sooner or later, my sexual attraction to her isn't going to be enough. She'll be out showing off everything she's got every time we go out in public. Don't get me wrong - there's a difference between a hint of cleavage (lots of feminine-style shirts are made that way) and showing off EVERYTHING you've got. Some chicks have more boob out than they have in their shirts. Sure, I love looking - but that's not the type of person I'm going to date if she feels she has to advertise that online. In the bedroom? Sure! Online? You're out, lady.
Author irc333 Posted May 17, 2012 Author Posted May 17, 2012 LOL...yeah, as we guys drool over these photos, we need to get our heads together and think "Okay, what's the real motive here" same with guys taking shots of them in the mirror with their shirts off, showin' off those washboards. There are some fit women, that have professionally made HIGH Resolution shots of them in a fashionable swimsuit (the kind you don't go swimming in, just to lay out in) Very good shape, but she's show boating or "show pony" situation there. She looks like a VEnus Swimsuit model to be honest, (made me wonder what she's doing on a dating site, lol) I'm with LittlePrince. As someone who's also into women (although not as much as men! ) - it's a turn-off when I see a girl who has showy pictures up. It makes me think that she's attention-needy and attention-hungry, and that sooner or later, my sexual attraction to her isn't going to be enough. She'll be out showing off everything she's got every time we go out in public. Don't get me wrong - there's a difference between a hint of cleavage (lots of feminine-style shirts are made that way) and showing off EVERYTHING you've got. Some chicks have more boob out than they have in their shirts. Sure, I love looking - but that's not the type of person I'm going to date if she feels she has to advertise that online. In the bedroom? Sure! Online? You're out, lady.
LittlePrince Posted May 17, 2012 Posted May 17, 2012 LOL...yeah, as we guys drool over these photos, we need to get our heads together and think "Okay, what's the real motive here" same with guys taking shots of them in the mirror with their shirts off, showin' off those washboards. There are some fit women, that have professionally made HIGH Resolution shots of them in a fashionable swimsuit (the kind you don't go swimming in, just to lay out in) Very good shape, but she's show boating or "show pony" situation there. She looks like a VEnus Swimsuit model to be honest, (made me wonder what she's doing on a dating site, lol) She's online shopping.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted May 17, 2012 Posted May 17, 2012 If you want women to dress a certain way, the practice what you preach. Next time your out, don't oggle the hot women in the tight little showy outfit. Don't smile at her, don't flirt with her. Smile, flirt and be open to the ladies that dress like you like. If you enjoy the eye candy, contribute to the demand for it, then don't turn around and whine when women show off the eye candy. I am so tired of men criticizing women for showing off their stuff yet do everyting they can to sneak glances as these women then put them down behint their backs. It's really catty.
LittlePrince Posted May 17, 2012 Posted May 17, 2012 If you want women to dress a certain way, the practice what you preach. Next time your out, don't oggle the hot women in the tight little showy outfit. Don't smile at her, don't flirt with her. Smile, flirt and be open to the ladies that dress like you like. If you enjoy the eye candy, contribute to the demand for it, then don't turn around and whine when women show off the eye candy. I am so tired of men criticizing women for showing off their stuff yet do everyting they can to sneak glances as these women then put them down behint their backs. It's really catty. When someone puts on a show it is hard not to watch. Even other women have difficulty turning their gaze away.
Oxy Moronovich Posted May 17, 2012 Posted May 17, 2012 If you want women to dress a certain way, the practice what you preach. Next time your out, don't oggle the hot women in the tight little showy outfit. Don't smile at her, don't flirt with her. Smile, flirt and be open to the ladies that dress like you like. If you enjoy the eye candy, contribute to the demand for it, then don't turn around and whine when women show off the eye candy. I am so tired of men criticizing women for showing off their stuff yet do everyting they can to sneak glances as these women then put them down behint their backs. It's really catty. What? As if there aren't women who show off skin then complain about men checking them out. It's truly catty how broads will show off their body then get huffy when guys eyeball them.
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