perryb13 Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 I had posted a week ago or so on this, but my situation has updated slightly. So this girl I was hitting it off with at work really seemed to be digging me. She told her roommates and parents about "this hilarious guy she works with" and we went out to the bar once, and had a great time. Next day, we talked for like 2 hours after work about absolutely nothing, and it was great finally feeling a connection with someone. Since that friday, she hasn't seemed very keen to answer my texts or have a conversation. I only text every couple of days if I have something funny or interesting to tell her, so I'm not blowing her phone up. It's like she seems super cool in person, but I guess I figured that she'd be a little more responsive. Was she just being friendly in person and I read her wrong? Or am I possibly taking things too fast? Also, we did hook up when we went out to the bar, but I didn't read into that too much because we were both drinking. It's the other stuff that's confusing me. I appreciate any help.
AngelDollFace Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 (edited) Hi, to me it seems like she might regret the sex so soon. If I did that I'd behave that way also. I'd be ashamed and I'd not think highly of the guy either. The entire 'relationship' would have a bad taste in my mouth and make me sad. But that's just me. I am very careful about who I spend time in bed with. Edited April 19, 2012 by AngelDollFace
madball2289 Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 I'm kinda going through simliar situation. Went out saturday had a good time spent the night, talked sunday and talked and hung out monday, went for a call/text on tuesday and didn't get back to me. So what I'm doing is backing off and seeing if she comes to me. I guess with girls you gotta make it not so easy sometimes. if she's still interested she'll make some kind of move.
Author perryb13 Posted April 19, 2012 Author Posted April 19, 2012 (edited) Hi, to me it seems like she might regret the sex so soon. If I did that I'd behave that way also. I'd be ashamed and I'd not think highly of the guy either. The entire 'relationship' would have a bad taste in my mouth and make me sad. But that's just me. I am very careful about who I spend time in bed with. Sorry, I phrased this poorly, because I didn't sleep with her. She initiated by wanting to make out and other things happened, but no sex...thank god, because yeah we were really drunk and that would've been stupid. However, we talked about it the next day and just laughed about how ridiculous it was because it was our first time hanging out outside of work. No awkward vibe or anything...if anything, the vibe was better than it had been. My real pickle here is that I'm touring with a musical group for the summer while she's staying at school and working. Do I just leave and attempt to keep contact and hope something happens? Or do I be straight up with her and tell her I have feelings for her and then go from there? Edited April 19, 2012 by perryb13 Elaborating
Lovely Girl Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 Usually guys disappear after girls have sex with them so soon, not the other way around. It's like she flipped the script on you. And as someone mentioned I would be ashamed too, she probably felt like she gave you the wrong impression. Give it some time she might come around. Please answer mine. I need a guys input = ) http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/322348-he-asked-my-number-but-he-just-being-nice
Author perryb13 Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 Usually guys disappear after girls have sex with them so soon, not the other way around. It's like she flipped the script on you. And as someone mentioned I would be ashamed too, she probably felt like she gave you the wrong impression. Give it some time she might come around. Please answer mine. I need a guys input = ) http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/322348-he-asked-my-number-but-he-just-being-nice I will answer but just so you know, we didn't have sex. Just making out mostly...I never just have sex for S's and G's.
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