SilverBlueAndGold Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 After my breakup I contacted a fling from the past. She was glad to hear from me and seemed eager to hook up again. It was never serious, purely physical. I explained the situation to her and warned that I am not in the best state of mind, am not looking for something serious and if that doesn't work for her she should bow out right away. She said she understood and still wanted to get together. Well one thing lead to another and I found myself in a situation where it just felt wrong to me. I couldnt do it Too soon, for some reason it felt like I was cheating. Isn't that weird? And to make matters worse she obviously has strong feelings for me. Ack, what have I done! 1
Mcnulty Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 It's too soon for you to be in another relationship, think you know that. Good that you told her from the off that you weren't ready for anything other than a physical relationship. Now, you have to be truthful with her, tell her it's not what you want at the mo. You need to give yourself time to heal from the last relationship. it's not fair on her and you know it.
Lovely Girl Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 No you did the right thing by telling her you didn't want a relationship upfront. That was really cool of you because most guys would be selfish in that situation by just having sex and leading the girl on. Plus you said it didn't feel right anyway doing that. You don't want a rebound relationship. If you really care about her just end it or continue to take it slow, because she obviously is developing feelings you don't have right now. Please answer mine. I need a guys input: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/322348-he-asked-my-number-but-he-just-being-nice
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