ibenuto Posted April 17, 2012 Posted April 17, 2012 So yesterday my date canceled on me.It was going to be our 1st date. He said it was because his parents needed him. But he still wants go go on a date. He asked me if I hated him or thought that he was shallow for canceling. I told him no and that I understood perfectly. Then after we talked about rescheduling through texting but he didn't reply. Which is weird considering we talk all night usually. So this morning i sent him this: ME: are you mad? HIM: Not at all babe. I have no reason to be. I'm mad at myself. That I let you down. But not at you. ME: Its ok. I was just wondering cause you didn't reply. HIM: Sorry. ME: Its okay. Then he didn't reply again!! Whats going on with him? He canceled because his parents need the car he had and it is against his culture/religion to date (he's indian) if his parents knew they would disown him. Literally. So on his way to meet me he had to turn around and give his parents the car. So he didn't make it. But why is he not talking to me as much? When he told me he couldn't make it he said that he still wants to go on our date. What do you think? I'm 18 and he's 20.
SmileFace Posted April 17, 2012 Posted April 17, 2012 His parents may be on to him and he has to be extra careful with the texts. I am only half joking here and like half serious.
veggirl Posted April 17, 2012 Posted April 17, 2012 How do you know this guy? Have you met in person yet? I'd back way off. Don't text him and stuff first anymore. He cancelled, HE needs to reschedule. And the babe stuff is ridiculous if you haven't even dated Not responding to your attempts to reschedule says something...
Lovely Girl Posted April 17, 2012 Posted April 17, 2012 He's a jerk! A guy I dated once did that to me on our first date. Something about being stood up on the first date or cancelled makes everything seem to go down hill. I'm very apologetic if I had to cancel on someone and I wouldn't give them further reasons to distrust me (i.e. not answering your texts). I honestly don't think he cares. But if you want to give him another chance I say be cautious. Answer mine please: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/322348-he-asked-my-number-but-he-just-being-nice
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